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Of us" plays]
              <i> ♪</i>

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      ♪<i> I see the crystal</i>
       <i> raindrops fall ♪</i>

3
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        ♪<i> and the beauty</i>
         <i> of it all </i> ♪

4
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   <i> I believe love is defined</i>
        <i> by two things. </i>

5
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     <i> First, what we see. </i>

6
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     <i> Then, what we feel. </i>

7
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     <i> Dancing was a staple</i>
        <i> in our house. </i>

8
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  <i> It was my parents' personal</i>
        <i> love language.</i>

9
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        <i> But even more,</i>

10
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<i> I could feel the love in</i>
  <i> everything we did together.</i>

11
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     ♪<i> just the two of us</i> ♪

12
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  ♪<i> we can make it if we try</i> ♪

13
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     ♪<i> just the two of us</i> ♪

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     ♪<i> just the two of us</i> ♪

15
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  <i> our principles were simple.</i>

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   <i> Keep god and family first</i>

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      <i> and everything else</i>
     <i> will work itself out.</i>

18
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   <i> My mom was my dad's queen</i>
    <i> and I was his princess.</i>

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       <i> It was perfect,</i>
<i> until it wasn't.</i>

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      <i> As my parents grew</i>
 <i> in their respective careers,</i>

21
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 <i> work started to take precedent</i>
         <i> over family.</i>

22
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    <i> And I guess we kind of</i>
        <i> lost balance.</i>

23
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      <i> ♪ we gotta go... ♪</i>

24
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   <i> I'll never forget the day</i>
       <i> my dad moved out.</i>

25
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    <i> It was the saddest day</i>
         <i> of my life.</i>

26
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     <i> ♪ we can make it... ♪</i>

27
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    <i> they were growing apart</i>

28
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<i> and decided divorce</i>
     <i> was the best option.</i>

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      <i> Once mema moved in</i>
      <i> everything changed.</i>

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<i>I went from a carefree princess</i>
   <i> to a worrisome daughter,</i>

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 <i> overly concerned with trying</i>
 <i> to make everyone else happy.</i>

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       <i> As sad as I was,</i>

33
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    <i> I think I was more hurt</i>
       <i> seeing my parents</i>

34
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 <i> become shells of themselves.</i>

35
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 <i> I vowed that one day I would</i>
<i>perfect this thing called love.</i>

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               <i> ♪</i>

37
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 <i> and now I have my own prince</i>
   <i> to create my story with.</i>

38
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               <i> ♪</i>

39
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          -mm-hmm! Oh!

40
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       -You still got it.

41
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        -I still got it.

42
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           -[laughs]

43
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       someone woke up in
       a good mood today.

44
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  -Well, this somebody happens
     to be the luckiest man

45
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         in the world.

46
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  -Even after five long years
         of marriage?

47
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        -Even after five
long, long...

48
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          -Okay, okay.

49
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            [laughs]

50
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     so, this mood of yours
  wouldn't have anything to do

51
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 with a special upcoming date?

52
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        -Upcoming date?

53
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     Ahh! Our anniversary.
      I guess you got me.

54
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      Someone has to bring
     the excitement, right?

55
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          -Excuse me?

56
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-Well you tend to be more of the
debbie downer around this time.

57
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    -Debbie downer? Really?

58
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    Okay, okay you're right.
    But I mean we know why.

59
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It's never about us.

60
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        -Well, this year
      let's be intentional

61
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   about making it about us.

62
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      And possibly adding
         a, you know.

63
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      -I hear you. Really.

64
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       -Starting tonight.

65
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              -Oh.

66
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          -What's oh?

67
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      -I forgot I told kam
       that we could host

68
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   her and her new boyfriend
      for dinner tonight.

69
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      -Why'd you do that?

70
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    -Sorry. I mean she just
 really wants you to meet him.

71
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            -Why me?

72
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-Because only a king
        could recognize

73
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    another potential king.

74
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   -I guess, that cheesy line
   is supposed to work on me?

75
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            -Did it?

76
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     -You're so good to me.

77
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    I promise after dinner
  it's just you and me, okay?

78
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          -Can't wait.
             -Bye.

79
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               <i> ♪</i>

80
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      -oh, so nice of you
          to join us.

81
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      -Please don't start.

82
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   I actually had to stop by
the store for our date tonight.

83
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        -Oh, my bestie.

84
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-Uh-uh, now I'm your bestie?

85
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   Okay, I just need a minute
    to get my chi together.

86
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     -Well, you better put
      your chi on pause.

87
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   Miss sally's been waiting
for you since the doors opened.

88
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              -Oh.

89
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            -Relax.

90
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   I already did her shampoo
       and conditioner.

91
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  -Oh, that's why I love you.

92
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            -Mm-hmm.

93
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 Well, actually I just wanted
to tell you more about rahsaan.

94
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Girl, I can't thank you enough.

95
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    I mean, as soon as you
told me he was a lawyer
       I was interested.

96
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          -Of course.

97
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      -No, but seriously.
      He is so much more.

98
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    Alicia, I'm telling you.
    He's funny, a gentleman.

99
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Oh, and what I love the most is
that he's not flashy, you know?

100
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      -Girl, I do not need
       his whole resume.

101
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   Arnold is the one you need
          to convince.

102
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He wasn't too thrilled about us
    double dating tonight.

103
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-Oh, please tell him to be nice.
     We will not stay long.

104
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-Oh, I know.

105
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-Oh, yeah, it's your anniversary
           coming up.

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      I hope you planned
      something romantic.

107
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   -Let me get this straight.

108
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 You think me having a romantic
    evening with my husband

109
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    will get him to sign off
     on your relationship?

110
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      -You make it sound
    so out of the question.

111
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           -[giggles]

112
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               <i> ♪</i>

113
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        -twist and down.
          Up and down.

114
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Scoop in, up and back two three,
like a rubber band.

115
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       And finish strong.

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        All on the heel.

117
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              Oh.

118
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         -Looks great.
  Apologies for interrupting.

119
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          -Not at all.

120
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       Dr. Roberts, class
      was actually ending.

121
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    We were just going over
        some new moves.

122
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      -Looks really good.

123
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  Now remember that dancing is
 bigger than the physical body.

124
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    When you extend your arm

125
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      the energy continues
       past the fingers.

126
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       Claim the space.
Nice work everyone.

127
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   -Those are great thoughts
        to reflect on.

128
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    Uh, everyone. You heard
         those words.

129
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     Let's bring the action
          on Thursday.

130
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      Great job everyone.
          Thank you.

131
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   -Just wanted to check in,

132
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   see how our new associate
    professor is adjusting.

133
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       Everybody's raving
        about your work.

134
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   -Oh, that's great to hear.

135
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You know, we would love to have
you join us for a whole class.

136
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       -Oh, no, no, no.
Those days are long gone.

137
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     -Oh, I beg to differ.

138
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   You are considered an icon
        in our industry.

139
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       -Well, thank you.

140
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    -You know, I would love
 to pick your brain over lunch.

141
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  It doesn't have to be today
      or anything, but...

142
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  -Yeah. We should have lunch,
          definitely.

143
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 We'll talk about choreography
  and the studio, et cetera.

144
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       -That'd be great.

145
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          -Nice work.
           -Thanks.

146
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        -[clears throat]

147
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-woah, that looks great on you.

148
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            -Really?

149
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 I don't know. I think I liked
      the other one more.

150
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     It's more comfortable.
    I could move more in it.

151
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        -Just get both.

152
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       -Jack, it's not...
         -No. I insist.

153
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     -Well, if you insist.

154
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    -Yes, morgan you'll have
  to reprint all the programs.

155
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  They are not going out with
 all those grammatical errors.

156
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        Okay, thank you.

157
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   Nobody proofreads anymore.

158
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      I'm sorry I'm late.

159
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You know how hard it is for me
        to leave campus

160
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 without running into 20 people
  who needs something from me.

161
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         -I understand.

162
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 -Hmm. I can't go into my next
  meeting smelling like tuna.

163
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      I apologize, I know.
      It's not your look.

164
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        I'll make it up
        to you tonight.

165
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   I'll come over, I'll make
     my famous spaghetti.

166
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    You know how much arnold
           loves it.

167
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      -Yeah. That he does.
    But um, I can't tonight.

168
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I'm actually having kam
  and her new boyfriend over.

169
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              -Ah.

170
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   -But, I mean, I can cancel
          if you want.

171
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   -Oh, don't be ridiculous.

172
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           -You sure?

173
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     -I'm fine. Of course,
     of course, of course.

174
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 I'll still make the spaghetti.
   I'll save some for arnold.

175
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       And, I mean, mema
       still has to eat.

176
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        -Mema probably
      has a date tonight.

177
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           -[laughs]
         you're right.
       She probably does.

178
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But still, it's all right.
           I'm fine.

179
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        -Mm-hmm. Yeah.
    Just you and your work.

180
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           I'm sorry.

181
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 Mom, don't you think it's time

182
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       that maybe you got
        back out there?

183
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       -Where exactly is
       "there" located?

184
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       Look, just because
           I'm alone

185
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    doesn't mean I'm lonely.

186
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      And also I have you.
      What else do I need?

187
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         [phone rings]

188
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              -um.
           -Go ahead.

189
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-Okay, really. I will make it up
       to you next time.

190
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   It'll just be you and me.
       No phones, okay?

191
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     I promise. I love you.

192
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           -Love you.

193
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     -Hi there. Yep, okay.
         On my way...

194
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    -Well, the good news is

195
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    I think you got one for
   every day of the week now.

196
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           -[laughs]
  I think you might be right.

197
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             -Yeah.

198
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        [phone ringing]

199
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         hey princess.

200
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   -Hey. Oh, I didn't realize
         you were out.

201
00:09:01,141 --> 00:09:03,041
I can try you later
         if you want.

202
00:09:03,076 --> 00:09:04,142
         -No, no, no.
       Timing's perfect.

203
00:09:04,177 --> 00:09:06,478
Um, I'm actually out with jada.
      You want to say hi?

204
00:09:06,513 --> 00:09:08,446
   -Um, no. That's okay, dad.

205
00:09:08,482 --> 00:09:10,615
          -Hey alicia.
        Nice to see you.

206
00:09:10,651 --> 00:09:12,584
           -Hi jada.

207
00:09:12,619 --> 00:09:14,419
      -Hey, so what's up?

208
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         -Oh, nothing.

209
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     I just wanted to see
    if you were free but...

210
00:09:18,125 --> 00:09:19,257
    -We're actually heading
           to lunch.

211
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  You want to come with? I can
   swing by and pick you up.

212
00:09:21,328 --> 00:09:22,394
-Oh, that's okay.

213
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     I just ate, but maybe
          next time?

214
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          -All right.
        Well, love you.

215
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        -Love you too.
        Take care. Bye.

216
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               <i> ♪</i>

217
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   -I mean, most importantly
    the work is rewarding.

218
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      Long hours and way
      too much paperwork?

219
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    Thankfully I get to see
      this beautiful face

220
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     when I'm not working.

221
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      -Oh, isn't he cute?

222
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       He's doing so much
       for the community.

223
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-That's great, man.

224
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   I wish this web developer
       could share about

225
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   how his work is inspiring
          the world.

226
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-Don't sell yourself short, boo.

227
00:10:00,834 --> 00:10:03,101
   The apps that you create
  help us all stay connected.

228
00:10:03,136 --> 00:10:05,337
     -It's important work.
          -Thank you.

229
00:10:05,372 --> 00:10:06,805
     -Do those dating apps
         really work?

230
00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:08,306
         -I mean, sure.

231
00:10:08,342 --> 00:10:11,276
     Um, some people seem
    to find them effective.

232
00:10:11,311 --> 00:10:12,811
 Different times I guess, huh?

233
00:10:12,846 --> 00:10:14,012
             -Yeah.

234
00:10:14,047 --> 00:10:16,014
  -Can you imagine our parents
meeting through a phone app?

235
00:10:16,049 --> 00:10:18,516
-Well, my parents were destined
   to fill each other's life

236
00:10:18,552 --> 00:10:21,653
   with torture, no matter if
  they met through technology,

237
00:10:21,688 --> 00:10:24,789
     arranged marriage, or
    any other dating means.

238
00:10:24,825 --> 00:10:27,158
          [all laugh]

239
00:10:27,194 --> 00:10:28,193
         [phone dings]

240
00:10:30,664 --> 00:10:32,530
   -what about your parents?

241
00:10:32,566 --> 00:10:35,867
     -What's that? Oh, they
         are divorced.

242
00:10:35,902 --> 00:10:37,302
   -I'm sorry to hear. Uh...

243
00:10:37,337 --> 00:10:39,971
        -No, it's fine.
        It's been years.

244
00:10:40,007 --> 00:10:42,907
   But, yeah, they would not
   fare well on those apps.

245
00:10:42,943 --> 00:10:47,979
My mom is too busy to search
   for herself, and my dad...

246
00:10:48,015 --> 00:10:50,348
   Well he doesn't even know
   what he's searching for.

247
00:10:50,384 --> 00:10:53,551
  -Well, I'm thankful for you
     pairing us together.

248
00:10:53,587 --> 00:10:54,619
         -That's right.

249
00:10:54,655 --> 00:10:57,422
Because lord knows I didn't know
       what I was doing.

250
00:10:57,457 --> 00:10:58,423
            -Mm-mm.

251
00:10:58,458 --> 00:10:59,691
           -[laughs]

252
00:10:59,726 --> 00:11:01,026
      to the love doctor.

253
00:11:01,061 --> 00:11:02,193
      -To the love doctor.

254
00:11:02,229 --> 00:11:03,495
         -Love doctor.

255
00:11:03,530 --> 00:11:05,397
         -I'll take it.
       Thanks for coming.

256
00:11:10,137 --> 00:11:12,170
      -That rahsaan seemed
          pretty cool.

257
00:11:12,205 --> 00:11:15,173
Bit of a know-it-all,
        but he's cool.

258
00:11:15,208 --> 00:11:20,045
 -My dad texted earlier that he
and jada agreed to take a break.

259
00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,247
    Which means he broke up
           with her.

260
00:11:22,282 --> 00:11:23,381
            -[sighs]

261
00:11:23,417 --> 00:11:25,550
 well, you didn't care too much
     for her anyway, right?

262
00:11:25,585 --> 00:11:27,052
         -She was okay.

263
00:11:27,087 --> 00:11:30,422
    I mean, it really wasn't
           about her.

264
00:11:30,457 --> 00:11:33,391
He's always finding these women,
       building them up,

265
00:11:33,427 --> 00:11:36,361
   and then when things get
  too serious he just leaves.

266
00:11:36,396 --> 00:11:37,696
 I'm just so over both of them.

267
00:11:37,731 --> 00:11:39,364
I mean, my mom isn't any better.

268
00:11:39,399 --> 00:11:42,867
      -On a positive note
 it seems like the love doctor

269
00:11:42,903 --> 00:11:45,770
     has scored another one
     with kam and rahsaan.

270
00:11:45,806 --> 00:11:47,005
       -I did, didn't I?

271
00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,474
  -Maybe we should get you to
 design one of our dating apps.

272
00:11:49,509 --> 00:11:51,543
            -Maybe.

273
00:11:51,578 --> 00:11:54,212
 Anyway, enough about everyone
      else for the night.

274
00:11:54,247 --> 00:11:56,448
   I just want to cuddle up.

275
00:11:56,483 --> 00:11:58,416
   -Now that I can get with.

276
00:11:59,686 --> 00:12:00,719
        [doorbell rings]

277
00:12:02,355 --> 00:12:03,988
        -that can't be.

278
00:12:04,024 --> 00:12:06,491
    -But we both know it is.

279
00:12:06,526 --> 00:12:08,126
    -Are you sure you don't
want some, arnold?

280
00:12:08,161 --> 00:12:09,227
         I made plenty.

281
00:12:09,262 --> 00:12:11,262
     I thought your friends
  were still going to be here.

282
00:12:11,298 --> 00:12:12,564
       -Oh no, I'm fine.
       Thank you, brenda.

283
00:12:12,599 --> 00:12:15,100
   -That is really thoughtful
          of you, mom.

284
00:12:15,135 --> 00:12:18,136
 -Yeah. Definitely a surprise.

285
00:12:18,171 --> 00:12:22,741
    You know, I'm actually
   about to head to bed, so.

286
00:12:22,776 --> 00:12:23,575
         -Should I go?

287
00:12:23,610 --> 00:12:25,977
     -No, no, no, no, mom.
         You're fine.

288
00:12:26,012 --> 00:12:27,779
  -Are you sure? I don't want
       to stay too long.

289
00:12:27,814 --> 00:12:29,247
    I don't want to intrude.

290
00:12:29,282 --> 00:12:30,482
              -No.

291
00:12:30,517 --> 00:12:31,850
-It's cold in here.
         Are you cold?

292
00:12:31,885 --> 00:12:33,451
        -Just a little.
       -Yes. It's chilly.

293
00:12:33,487 --> 00:12:34,586
       -I'll turn it up.

294
00:12:34,621 --> 00:12:35,653
          -Oh, thanks.

295
00:12:35,689 --> 00:12:37,622
         -Thanks babe.
           -So nice.

296
00:12:39,793 --> 00:12:43,928
     -He's such a good man.
  You better take care of him.

297
00:12:46,700 --> 00:12:49,601
           -[humming]

298
00:12:56,009 --> 00:12:57,075
         -what is this?

299
00:12:59,346 --> 00:13:00,411
              Hmm.

300
00:13:02,549 --> 00:13:08,686
 "organic chemistry brings back
    the concept of courting,

301
00:13:08,722 --> 00:13:11,556
  "parties involved are truly
     able to communicate,

302
00:13:11,591 --> 00:13:14,292
   "taking the time to create
a bond while discovering

303
00:13:14,327 --> 00:13:18,329
     "the other person both
   mentally and emotionally."

304
00:13:18,365 --> 00:13:23,535
               <i> ♪</i>

305
00:13:26,106 --> 00:13:27,338
          -[whispers]
             babe.

306
00:13:27,374 --> 00:13:29,174
     I think I just solved
         our problem.

307
00:13:29,209 --> 00:13:30,175
   Well, in a sense you did.

308
00:13:30,210 --> 00:13:31,009
  And before you say anything,

309
00:13:31,044 --> 00:13:33,711
      the solution doesn't
        even involve me.

310
00:13:35,115 --> 00:13:36,014
  -What are we talking about?

311
00:13:36,049 --> 00:13:37,816
     -Your new dating app,
      organic chemistry.

312
00:13:37,851 --> 00:13:39,651
  It's perfect for my parents.

313
00:13:39,686 --> 00:13:43,755
    -Wait, what? This seems
          like a lot.

314
00:13:43,790 --> 00:13:45,557
You really think
       they'd go for it?

315
00:13:45,592 --> 00:13:48,159
  You just said that your mom
      thinks she's fine.

316
00:13:48,195 --> 00:13:49,994
  Besides we designed this app

317
00:13:50,030 --> 00:13:52,430
       specifically for
      open-minded people.

318
00:13:52,465 --> 00:13:57,335
  -What are you trying to say?
 True, she will be a hard sell.

319
00:13:57,370 --> 00:14:00,104
  But once I convince her that
   we need our space, then...

320
00:14:00,140 --> 00:14:01,372
     -Like you did tonight?

321
00:14:01,408 --> 00:14:03,908
       -Fair. I probably
      should've spoken up.

322
00:14:03,944 --> 00:14:07,278
     But this babe, this is
     our ticket to freedom.

323
00:14:07,314 --> 00:14:09,948
        Are you excited?
This is good.

324
00:14:09,983 --> 00:14:11,049
           -[groans]

325
00:14:11,084 --> 00:14:13,384
         [phone rings]

326
00:14:14,087 --> 00:14:19,390
  -hey dad. Wait, wait, wait,
          slow down.

327
00:14:19,426 --> 00:14:20,925
     No. A dm's not an app.

328
00:14:20,961 --> 00:14:25,096
     It's when you directly
        message someone.

329
00:14:27,067 --> 00:14:29,767
 -Let me get my "I told you so"
      out of the way now.

330
00:14:36,142 --> 00:14:39,210
           -[sighs]
          no, no, no.

331
00:14:39,246 --> 00:14:41,212
      So that's what this
    daughter-daddy time is?

332
00:14:41,248 --> 00:14:44,249
  You trying to get me to use
   some new dating service?

333
00:14:44,284 --> 00:14:46,484
       The apps I'm using
         are just fine.

334
00:14:46,519 --> 00:14:48,553
-First of all, you just learned
        what an app is.

335
00:14:48,588 --> 00:14:50,722
    And secondly, I brought
           you here

336
00:14:50,757 --> 00:14:54,125
  because I love spending time
          with my dad.

337
00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,328
  And I would argue that your
 dating life isn't going well.

338
00:14:57,364 --> 00:14:59,063
          Just saying.

339
00:14:59,099 --> 00:15:02,233
  -What are you talking about?
     My life is just fine.

340
00:15:02,269 --> 00:15:03,301
          What, jada?

341
00:15:03,336 --> 00:15:04,369
            -Mm-hmm.

342
00:15:05,338 --> 00:15:07,505
     -She wanted something
     I couldn't give her.

343
00:15:07,540 --> 00:15:09,340
   -That's the problem, dad.

344
00:15:09,376 --> 00:15:14,178
   I mean, every time things
get serious you get cold feet.

345
00:15:14,214 --> 00:15:17,115
     Here. It's the latest
     from arnold's company.

346
00:15:17,150 --> 00:15:18,783
       Organic chemistry.

347
00:15:18,818 --> 00:15:22,420
It's dedicated to helping people
 like yourself to take the time

348
00:15:22,455 --> 00:15:24,756
     to create a bond while
  discovering the other person

349
00:15:24,791 --> 00:15:26,925
       both emotionally
      and mentally first.

350
00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:27,992
           -[laughs]

351
00:15:28,028 --> 00:15:29,661
why do I feel like I'm listening
       to an infomercial.

352
00:15:29,696 --> 00:15:31,996
   -Basically, it's not like
   those other dating sites

353
00:15:32,032 --> 00:15:33,164
  where you're simply swiping

354
00:15:33,199 --> 00:15:34,632
     based off of physical
appearance.

355
00:15:34,668 --> 00:15:38,803
  That's what's been steering
        you wrong, dad.

356
00:15:38,838 --> 00:15:41,439
        I'm just trying
        to help you out.

357
00:15:41,474 --> 00:15:42,273
           -I'm fine.

358
00:15:42,309 --> 00:15:43,274
         -Oh, come on,
      just give it a try.

359
00:15:43,310 --> 00:15:45,209
     If you don't like it,
     I won't bug you again.

360
00:15:45,245 --> 00:15:47,445
  -So, I'm assuming that means
         if I don't try

361
00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,380
you're going to keep bugging me
          until I do.

362
00:15:49,416 --> 00:15:52,450
          -Every day.
             -Yeah.

363
00:15:58,224 --> 00:16:03,061
               ♪

364
00:16:03,096 --> 00:16:05,129
     -okay, that's better.

365
00:16:05,732 --> 00:16:07,065
          I gotta say,
I just can't believe

366
00:16:07,100 --> 00:16:10,401
     I'm taking class with
     the great dr. Roberts.

367
00:16:10,437 --> 00:16:12,904
       You're from ailey,
         to philadanco,

368
00:16:12,939 --> 00:16:14,072
  to ronald k. Brown evidence.

369
00:16:14,107 --> 00:16:15,139
     I mean, I could go on.

370
00:16:15,175 --> 00:16:17,342
 -It's flattering that you know
       my resume so much.

371
00:16:17,377 --> 00:16:20,078
  You've created a great body
       of work yourself.

372
00:16:20,113 --> 00:16:22,413
       -Well, hopefully
      under your tutelage

373
00:16:22,449 --> 00:16:24,649
     it will only continue
           to grow.

374
00:16:26,753 --> 00:16:27,986
           -Hey mom.

375
00:16:28,621 --> 00:16:31,389
-Oh hi. This is a nice surprise.

376
00:16:31,424 --> 00:16:33,558
      -Yeah. Just thought
I'd stop by and say hi.

377
00:16:33,593 --> 00:16:34,692
              -Hi.
              -Hi.

378
00:16:34,728 --> 00:16:35,827
              -Hi.
              -Hi.

379
00:16:35,862 --> 00:16:36,794
           -[laughs]

380
00:16:36,830 --> 00:16:39,430
     -mr. Staples, this is
     my daughter, alicia.

381
00:16:39,466 --> 00:16:40,832
  Alicia, this is mr. Staples.

382
00:16:40,867 --> 00:16:42,266
     He's our new associate
           professor.

383
00:16:42,302 --> 00:16:45,069
He's bringing some fresh energy
       into the program.

384
00:16:45,105 --> 00:16:46,571
       -You're too kind.
    A pleasure to meet you.

385
00:16:46,606 --> 00:16:47,705
           -Likewise.

386
00:16:50,477 --> 00:16:53,745
-All right. Well, um, thank you
      again, dr. Roberts.

387
00:16:53,780 --> 00:16:54,979
           -[laughs]

388
00:16:55,015 --> 00:16:57,248
-looking forward to putting
our lesson today into practice.

389
00:16:57,283 --> 00:16:59,550
       -Great. Good work.

390
00:16:59,586 --> 00:17:01,185
            -Ladies.

391
00:17:01,221 --> 00:17:02,220
          -Take care.

392
00:17:04,591 --> 00:17:05,590
             -Okay.

393
00:17:06,659 --> 00:17:07,358
             -What?

394
00:17:07,394 --> 00:17:09,794
         -Oh, nothing.
        Nothing at all.

395
00:17:09,829 --> 00:17:11,963
  Now, I know why you've been
      so busy with work.

396
00:17:11,998 --> 00:17:13,197
          -Oh, please.

397
00:17:13,233 --> 00:17:16,234
My relationship with mr. Staples
  is completely professional.

398
00:17:16,269 --> 00:17:19,537
       -Okay. Dr.Roberts.

399
00:17:19,572 --> 00:17:20,638
            [laughs]

400
00:17:20,673 --> 00:17:24,075
-anyway. I know you didn't come
     here just to say hi.

401
00:17:24,110 --> 00:17:24,942
What's up?

402
00:17:24,978 --> 00:17:27,745
   -How rude, but okay. Here.

403
00:17:27,781 --> 00:17:28,813
         -What's this?

404
00:17:28,848 --> 00:17:31,249
   -It's an online dating app
     from arnold's company.

405
00:17:31,284 --> 00:17:32,650
    They developed it. It's-

406
00:17:32,685 --> 00:17:33,518
             -nope.

407
00:17:33,553 --> 00:17:35,820
         -Hear me out.
     It's completely legit.

408
00:17:35,855 --> 00:17:38,256
  I think this could be a good
      option for you, mom.

409
00:17:38,291 --> 00:17:40,758
      -Option implies that
    I'm looking and I'm not.

410
00:17:40,794 --> 00:17:41,759
        -And I get that.

411
00:17:41,795 --> 00:17:43,928
     But that doesn't mean
    you're not missing out.

412
00:17:43,963 --> 00:17:46,564
 Look, I know you love spending
time with me and arnold.

413
00:17:46,599 --> 00:17:50,101
    I just want you to have
  the same thing for yourself.

414
00:17:50,136 --> 00:17:51,269
-Is this your way of telling me

415
00:17:51,304 --> 00:17:52,437
       that I'm too much
       of a third wheel?

416
00:17:52,472 --> 00:17:56,407
   -No. No, not at all, mom.
  We love your company. It's-

417
00:17:56,443 --> 00:17:58,076
   -look. I really appreciate
     your genuine concern,

418
00:17:58,111 --> 00:17:59,577
         but I am fine.

419
00:17:59,612 --> 00:18:02,513
       And online dating,
       it's not my thing.

420
00:18:02,549 --> 00:18:04,515
  -Well, dating is not really
       your thing, mom.

421
00:18:04,551 --> 00:18:05,616
           -[laughs]

422
00:18:05,652 --> 00:18:07,952
    -yes, there is a stigma
with finding someone online,

423
00:18:07,987 --> 00:18:11,155
 but this site seems genuinely
  dedicated to helping people

424
00:18:11,191 --> 00:18:12,790
   make genuine connections.

425
00:18:12,826 --> 00:18:16,994
       -I'm sure it is.
      But it's a hard no.

426
00:18:17,030 --> 00:18:18,930
    -Look, can you at least
        browse the app?

427
00:18:18,965 --> 00:18:20,131
       -I don't even know
        what that means.

428
00:18:20,166 --> 00:18:21,566
     Come on, I have to go.

429
00:18:22,802 --> 00:18:25,436
-Promise me then you'll at least
  find some time for yourself?

430
00:18:25,472 --> 00:18:27,171
   I can't have you becoming
   one of the golden girls.

431
00:18:27,207 --> 00:18:28,306
           -[laughs]

432
00:18:35,682 --> 00:18:39,484
-thank you. Clearly you can see
I'm vertically challenged.

433
00:18:39,519 --> 00:18:40,985
           -[laughs]

434
00:18:41,020 --> 00:18:42,019
             um...

435
00:18:44,824 --> 00:18:46,491
  Well, you have a good night.

436
00:18:46,526 --> 00:18:48,459
       -Thanks. You too.

437
00:18:48,495 --> 00:18:49,794
            -Thanks.

438
00:18:50,997 --> 00:18:53,531
         [phone rings]

439
00:18:55,335 --> 00:18:56,567
          -hey there.

440
00:18:56,603 --> 00:18:59,570
 I was just about to call you.
You need anything while I'm out?

441
00:18:59,606 --> 00:19:01,239
 -No. But I wanted to call you

442
00:19:01,274 --> 00:19:05,309
to tell you that the love doctor
         strikes again.

443
00:19:05,345 --> 00:19:06,577
     -Oh boy. What are you
        talking about?

444
00:19:06,613 --> 00:19:09,313
-You said my parents wouldn't be
 on board with the dating app.

445
00:19:09,349 --> 00:19:10,915
-They actually said yes?

446
00:19:10,950 --> 00:19:15,720
 -Well, my dad is a solid yes.
       My mom, soft no.

447
00:19:15,755 --> 00:19:19,056
  But when I ask her tomorrow
         she'll be in.

448
00:19:19,092 --> 00:19:20,992
   -You know what's not funny

449
00:19:21,027 --> 00:19:24,695
     is I believe you used
   that same strategy on me.

450
00:19:24,731 --> 00:19:25,763
            -Maybe.

451
00:19:25,798 --> 00:19:27,198
            [laughs]

452
00:19:27,233 --> 00:19:28,199
          I love you.

453
00:19:28,234 --> 00:19:29,567
        -I love you too.

454
00:19:35,875 --> 00:19:42,680
               ♪

455
00:19:43,816 --> 00:19:45,616
    -hey mom. Did you want
     to play another game?

456
00:19:45,652 --> 00:19:46,584
             -Hmm?

457
00:19:46,619 --> 00:19:47,718
   -I had a long day at work

458
00:19:47,754 --> 00:19:50,555
so I hope you don't mind eating
the leftover spaghetti.

459
00:19:50,590 --> 00:19:53,191
  -I actually ordered chinese.
             -Mmm.

460
00:19:53,226 --> 00:19:55,927
      That's even better.
    Are you wearing makeup?

461
00:19:55,962 --> 00:19:57,995
       [knocking at door]

462
00:20:00,633 --> 00:20:02,900
              -hi.
        -Hi. Come on in.

463
00:20:02,936 --> 00:20:05,136
        Mm. Smells good.

464
00:20:05,171 --> 00:20:06,904
-We can go upstairs if you want
      to stay down here.

465
00:20:06,940 --> 00:20:11,042
   -No. Hello mr. Cornelius.
  It's nice to see you again.

466
00:20:11,077 --> 00:20:11,876
              -Hi.

467
00:20:11,911 --> 00:20:13,678
          -Yeah. Okay.

468
00:20:16,583 --> 00:20:17,481
            -Gotcha.

469
00:20:17,517 --> 00:20:19,417
           -[laughs]

470
00:20:19,452 --> 00:20:20,918
         -look at this.
              -No!

471
00:20:20,954 --> 00:20:22,553
[laughs]

472
00:20:22,589 --> 00:20:23,354
           take that.

473
00:20:23,389 --> 00:20:25,656
    -Tell alicia and arnold
          I said hi.

474
00:20:25,692 --> 00:20:26,591
          -Excuse me?

475
00:20:26,626 --> 00:20:28,793
       -You're going over
     to their house, right?

476
00:20:28,828 --> 00:20:30,561
    I mean, where else would
   you be going at this hour?

477
00:20:30,597 --> 00:20:31,762
           -[laughs]

478
00:20:31,798 --> 00:20:34,098
   -hit me, hit me, come on.
             -Oh.

479
00:20:34,133 --> 00:20:37,301
       -I thought I heard
       something outside.

480
00:20:37,337 --> 00:20:39,804
        -Put one down.
   -Come on, give me a shot.

481
00:20:39,839 --> 00:20:40,938
            [laughs]
          come on now.

482
00:20:40,974 --> 00:20:42,406
  No, everything's all right.

483
00:20:42,442 --> 00:20:46,477
-No, you're too lucky.
    What are you doing? No!

484
00:20:46,512 --> 00:20:47,979
          -Okay, bren.

485
00:20:48,014 --> 00:20:49,647
            [laughs]

486
00:20:49,682 --> 00:20:51,716
       -you're too lucky.

487
00:20:58,324 --> 00:20:59,257
           -[laughs]

488
00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:00,524
        [phone buzzing]

489
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,927
  -I wonder who that could be.

490
00:21:02,962 --> 00:21:03,928
           -Hey mom.

491
00:21:03,963 --> 00:21:07,265
     -I can't believe what
     I'm about to ask you.

492
00:21:07,300 --> 00:21:09,967
       What was the name
      of that site again?

493
00:21:10,003 --> 00:21:11,068
         -Mom, really?

494
00:21:11,104 --> 00:21:14,472
    -You're going to do it?
  This is good, this is good.

495
00:21:14,507 --> 00:21:16,474
    -Okay, please calm down.

496
00:21:16,509 --> 00:21:19,176
     -Okay. Um, I will call
you tomorrow

497
00:21:19,212 --> 00:21:21,045
   and we'll walk through it.

498
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,115
  -Okay. You won't regret it,
          I promise.

499
00:21:25,852 --> 00:21:27,151
  -I don't even want to know.

500
00:21:27,186 --> 00:21:29,120
          -[singing]
     she's going to do it.

501
00:21:29,155 --> 00:21:30,521
        The love doctor
        strikes again.

502
00:21:30,556 --> 00:21:31,622
           -[laughs]
             okay.

503
00:21:31,658 --> 00:21:32,556
           -I did it.

504
00:21:32,592 --> 00:21:34,025
           [giggles]

505
00:21:36,663 --> 00:21:38,963
     -so you want me to put
   my picture up on this site

506
00:21:38,998 --> 00:21:40,798
        but I can't see
      the other person's?

507
00:21:40,833 --> 00:21:44,502
  -Yes mom. But they can't see
          you either.

508
00:21:44,537 --> 00:21:46,237
It gives you a chance
       to really open up

509
00:21:46,272 --> 00:21:49,140
   before the other person's
   picture starts to unblur.

510
00:21:49,175 --> 00:21:51,509
     -I don't know. Sounds
    a little strange to me.

511
00:21:51,544 --> 00:21:54,178
        <i> -Dad, trust me.</i>
          <i> It's safe.</i>

512
00:21:54,213 --> 00:21:55,446
        <i> Okay, remember.</i>

513
00:21:55,481 --> 00:21:58,616
 <i> Connect emotionally and then</i>
    <i> you get to meet them.</i>

514
00:21:58,651 --> 00:22:00,184
     Think of it this way.

515
00:22:00,219 --> 00:22:04,155
     It gives you a little
        more mystique.

516
00:22:04,190 --> 00:22:06,824
    And women actually like
    a little mystery, dad.

517
00:22:06,859 --> 00:22:09,293
-All right, mom.
      How does this sound?

518
00:22:09,329 --> 00:22:14,999
   An ambitious entrepreneur
 looking for a dancing partner.

519
00:22:15,034 --> 00:22:16,934
    -I don't know. It sounds
          a little...

520
00:22:16,969 --> 00:22:19,036
      -A little true. Mom,
       you can't fool me.

521
00:22:19,072 --> 00:22:20,037
      I know you're tired
        of being alone.

522
00:22:20,073 --> 00:22:25,042
-Okay fine. But also put serious
        inquiries only.

523
00:22:25,078 --> 00:22:28,145
    -Okay. "doctor roberts."

524
00:22:28,181 --> 00:22:30,948
   -all right. So I'm looking
    for an independent woman

525
00:22:30,983 --> 00:22:32,116
    that exudes confidence.

526
00:22:32,151 --> 00:22:34,485
   That all sounds fine and
everything but where's the fun?

527
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,053
        Movies, dancing.

528
00:22:36,089 --> 00:22:40,057
 -Bingo. Dad, you are a retired
      corporate attorney.

529
00:22:40,093 --> 00:22:42,727
 You need to start entertaining
    a serious relationship,

530
00:22:42,762 --> 00:22:45,963
not one where you're just paying
        for everything.

531
00:22:45,998 --> 00:22:51,168
 -All right. All I need now is
the name that you want to go by.

532
00:22:51,204 --> 00:22:52,970
       <i> What do you want</i>
     <i> the most out of this?</i>

533
00:22:53,005 --> 00:22:55,573
-I want you to stop bothering me
   and giving me a headache.

534
00:22:55,608 --> 00:23:01,145
       -Hmm. Sounds like
       "finding peace."

535
00:23:01,180 --> 00:23:04,181
-just a good time.
      Nothing too serious.

536
00:23:04,217 --> 00:23:05,816
       Laughter's a must.

537
00:23:05,852 --> 00:23:10,354
  -Perfect. "looking to laugh"
             it is.

538
00:23:10,390 --> 00:23:15,059
  Trust me, the love doctor's
           got this.

539
00:23:23,202 --> 00:23:25,436
         -Oh, come on.
      The wind took that.

540
00:23:25,471 --> 00:23:27,405
 -You know, I've seen you play
     in real life, right?

541
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,773
           -[laughs]

542
00:23:28,808 --> 00:23:30,341
       -what's going on?

543
00:23:30,376 --> 00:23:33,010
   -I'm trying to figure out
what to do for our anniversary.

544
00:23:33,045 --> 00:23:34,011
     Five years in the game

545
00:23:34,046 --> 00:23:36,947
     and I think it's time
    that we add to the team.

546
00:23:36,983 --> 00:23:38,449
-How's alicia feeling
          about that?

547
00:23:38,484 --> 00:23:40,418
     -She's so busy playing
    matchmaker for her folks

548
00:23:40,453 --> 00:23:42,686
  that her mother might end up
  having a child before we do.

549
00:23:42,722 --> 00:23:43,587
           -[laughs]

550
00:23:43,623 --> 00:23:44,555
           -for real.

551
00:23:44,590 --> 00:23:47,458
     She set them both up
     on organic chemistry.

552
00:23:47,493 --> 00:23:48,125
           -Our site?

553
00:23:48,161 --> 00:23:49,427
            -Uh-huh.

554
00:23:49,462 --> 00:23:51,429
 -Oh, well that's a win, right?

555
00:23:51,464 --> 00:23:53,063
The quicker you can get them out
        of y'all hairs,

556
00:23:53,099 --> 00:23:56,734
  the quicker you two can get
       to the game plan.

557
00:23:56,769 --> 00:23:59,303
        -I guess, later.

558
00:23:59,338 --> 00:24:01,372
-Alright. You know where
          to find me.

559
00:24:03,409 --> 00:24:04,842
            -Swish.

560
00:24:05,745 --> 00:24:09,647
    -So, is rahsaan the one?

561
00:24:09,682 --> 00:24:11,649
 -I don't know about all that,

562
00:24:11,684 --> 00:24:14,785
  but he's definitely the one
        for right now.

563
00:24:14,821 --> 00:24:17,621
    -Girl, I am not messing
           with you.

564
00:24:17,657 --> 00:24:18,989
            -[sighs]

565
00:24:19,025 --> 00:24:21,158
     you need to be messing
       with your husband.

566
00:24:21,194 --> 00:24:23,394
   -Starting that again, huh?

567
00:24:23,429 --> 00:24:25,162
   -I'm not starting nothing.

568
00:24:25,198 --> 00:24:26,997
      You know how you get
  when you start playing cupid

569
00:24:27,033 --> 00:24:28,899
   for everyone but yourself.

570
00:24:28,935 --> 00:24:30,134
        -Okay, so what?

571
00:24:30,169 --> 00:24:31,502
You're in a relationship
         for two weeks

572
00:24:31,537 --> 00:24:34,171
      and suddenly you're
     a relationship expert?

573
00:24:34,207 --> 00:24:38,976
    -Hmm. And on that note,
    thanks for closing up.

574
00:24:39,011 --> 00:24:39,977
          -Wait? What?

575
00:24:40,012 --> 00:24:40,845
          -[chuckles]

576
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,446
       bye sis. Love you.

577
00:24:42,482 --> 00:24:43,614
           -[scoffs]

578
00:24:43,649 --> 00:24:44,982
         love you, too.

579
00:24:47,854 --> 00:24:50,855
    <i> -So, how was your day?</i>

580
00:24:50,890 --> 00:24:54,258
         -It was fine.
        How about yours?

581
00:24:54,293 --> 00:24:58,662
 -Same. Oh um, kam said things
        are heating up

582
00:24:58,698 --> 00:25:00,431
    between her and rahsaan.

583
00:25:00,466 --> 00:25:01,999
         -Score one for
the love doctor.

584
00:25:02,034 --> 00:25:03,834
   -Hmm. And I'm almost done

585
00:25:03,870 --> 00:25:05,769
     setting up my parents
         for romance.

586
00:25:05,805 --> 00:25:07,838
     -Wow, make that three.

587
00:25:07,874 --> 00:25:12,943
  Hey babe, the game's about
 to start. Do you mind if I...

588
00:25:12,979 --> 00:25:15,179
         -Yeah, sure.
            -Yeah?

589
00:25:30,363 --> 00:25:32,696
      -Hey babe. I'm just
          going to go

590
00:25:32,732 --> 00:25:34,164
    finish up their profiles
          real quick,

591
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:39,737
  but do you want to cuddle up
    and watch a movie after?

592
00:25:39,772 --> 00:25:40,604
        -[distractedly]
             sure.

593
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:45,376
 Yeah, if I'm, if I'm still up.
Yeah.

594
00:25:45,411 --> 00:25:46,810
           -Oh, okay.

595
00:25:55,955 --> 00:26:01,692
               ♪

596
00:26:14,874 --> 00:26:19,009
   -everything is plant-based
        and mostly raw.

597
00:26:20,146 --> 00:26:22,713
          Oh, so good.

598
00:26:32,158 --> 00:26:34,858
  -M-mom? You're exaggerating
             okay?

599
00:26:34,894 --> 00:26:35,960
It couldn't have been that bad.

600
00:26:35,995 --> 00:26:37,127
         -It was worse.

601
00:26:37,163 --> 00:26:39,229
       The first date got
       separation anxiety

602
00:26:39,265 --> 00:26:41,565
     when I told him to put
        his phone away.

603
00:26:41,601 --> 00:26:44,802
The second date, he needed a job
  and he was 15 minutes late,

604
00:26:44,837 --> 00:26:47,404
and he had the nerve to say that
 he left his wallet in the car.

605
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,609
-Are you serious?
       What did you do?

606
00:26:51,644 --> 00:26:54,612
       <i> -I waited for him</i>
         <i> to go get it.</i>

607
00:26:54,647 --> 00:26:57,381
    -Well, I mean you can't
            give up

608
00:26:57,416 --> 00:26:59,283
        after one or two
        bad experiences.

609
00:26:59,318 --> 00:27:01,952
 -I mean I will admit the whole
     experience reminded me

610
00:27:01,988 --> 00:27:03,754
     of how much I like a
     little companionship.

611
00:27:03,789 --> 00:27:07,224
  So maybe I'm open to finding
someone again but not like this.

612
00:27:07,259 --> 00:27:09,493
  <i> All right. I'm going to get</i>
    <i> some rest. I love you.</i>

613
00:27:09,528 --> 00:27:10,995
-I love you too.

614
00:27:11,030 --> 00:27:13,397
   -Say hi to arnold and try
  to stop by later this week.

615
00:27:13,432 --> 00:27:18,869
    -I will. And sure. Bye.

616
00:27:21,374 --> 00:27:22,172
            [sighs]

617
00:27:22,208 --> 00:27:23,607
           -you okay?

618
00:27:25,811 --> 00:27:30,114
  -Go ahead. You know you want
     to say you were right.

619
00:27:30,149 --> 00:27:34,585
    -What? No, that's not...
      That's not like me.

620
00:27:34,620 --> 00:27:39,156
    But I mean, was I right?

621
00:27:39,191 --> 00:27:40,224
              -No?

622
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,593
            -[sighs]

623
00:27:43,729 --> 00:27:44,862
        -online dating's
        for millennials.

624
00:27:44,897 --> 00:27:47,297
    I just need a good book.

625
00:27:47,333 --> 00:27:48,432
            [sighs]

626
00:27:48,467 --> 00:27:52,302
although having someone to laugh
with wouldn't be so bad.

627
00:27:52,338 --> 00:27:54,138
    No, I'm going to cancel
    this account right now.

628
00:27:54,173 --> 00:27:55,606
      [notification alert]

629
00:27:56,642 --> 00:28:00,310
 -oh, my god, you are so funny.
           Too funny.

630
00:28:06,986 --> 00:28:08,352
      [notification alert]

631
00:28:16,495 --> 00:28:18,028
            -[sighs]

632
00:28:18,698 --> 00:28:20,964
        -finding peace?

633
00:28:22,435 --> 00:28:25,202
            [typing]

634
00:28:33,612 --> 00:28:37,047
            [typing]

635
00:29:09,615 --> 00:29:10,814
        -[sighs happily]

636
00:29:11,917 --> 00:29:14,184
I thought I would surprise you.
      I hope that's okay.

637
00:29:14,220 --> 00:29:15,152
             -Wow.

638
00:29:15,187 --> 00:29:15,919
          -Hi marcus.

639
00:29:15,955 --> 00:29:16,987
             -Hey.

640
00:29:18,591 --> 00:29:19,890
         See you later.

641
00:29:27,633 --> 00:29:28,665
           -[laughs]

642
00:29:36,642 --> 00:29:38,876
-[snickers]
             -what?

643
00:29:38,911 --> 00:29:45,115
-Nothing. It's just really nice.
          And needed.

644
00:29:45,151 --> 00:29:47,184
       Which reminds me.

645
00:29:56,729 --> 00:30:00,764
    -What about a log cabin
     for our anniversary?

646
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,701
    They say the traditional
    fifth year gift is wood.

647
00:30:04,737 --> 00:30:06,436
        Think about it.

648
00:30:06,472 --> 00:30:10,140
   Just you and I, nestled up
    in front of a warm fire.

649
00:30:10,176 --> 00:30:12,142
   -Mm. That does sound nice.

650
00:30:12,178 --> 00:30:13,377
            -Mm-hmm.

651
00:30:13,412 --> 00:30:16,747
 -I just know with my schedule
  it's just hard to get away.

652
00:30:18,284 --> 00:30:20,617
-I should've thought about that.

653
00:30:20,953 --> 00:30:23,487
-But you might be
        onto something.

654
00:30:23,522 --> 00:30:26,790
      How about we do some
      sort of staycation?

655
00:30:26,826 --> 00:30:28,392
 Maybe a room at a fancy hotel?

656
00:30:28,427 --> 00:30:29,493
      [notification alert]

657
00:30:29,528 --> 00:30:30,694
           -[weakly]
            mm-hmm.

658
00:30:32,298 --> 00:30:33,130
           -[laughs]

659
00:30:33,165 --> 00:30:35,399
     okay. You're not going
        to believe this,

660
00:30:35,434 --> 00:30:38,635
       but guess who has
        a date tonight?

661
00:30:38,671 --> 00:30:40,304
     -Who? Not your mother.

662
00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:41,371
             -Yeah.

663
00:30:42,641 --> 00:30:45,242
      -Well, that's good.
    You should go call her.

664
00:30:45,277 --> 00:30:46,276
           -You sure?

665
00:30:46,312 --> 00:30:49,813
      -Yes, yeah, please.
Before she shows up here.

666
00:30:49,849 --> 00:30:51,648
   I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

667
00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,084
   But you know how the last
     few dates turned out.

668
00:30:54,119 --> 00:30:55,319
        -You know what?
         You're right.

669
00:30:55,354 --> 00:30:58,856
 I should probably go meet her.
  Yeah, I'm going to go help.

670
00:30:58,891 --> 00:31:00,691
    -Yeah, that makes sense.

671
00:31:00,726 --> 00:31:03,994
 I think I might head to happy
   hour with marcus anyway.

672
00:31:04,029 --> 00:31:05,529
      -Okay. Sounds good.

673
00:31:05,564 --> 00:31:07,297
    Just make sure to bring
      this home with you.

674
00:31:07,333 --> 00:31:09,433
          I love you.
        This was great.

675
00:31:09,468 --> 00:31:10,334
     We'll do more of this.

676
00:31:10,369 --> 00:31:11,568
[giggles]

677
00:31:14,673 --> 00:31:17,341
  -alicia was a nice surprise.

678
00:31:17,376 --> 00:31:21,778
      -Yeah. It was cool.
     Definitely unexpected.

679
00:31:21,814 --> 00:31:24,114
      -Sounds like there's
        a "but" coming.

680
00:31:24,149 --> 00:31:26,483
       -No, it was great.

681
00:31:26,518 --> 00:31:30,020
  But it's just that the other
    day I was in the store.

682
00:31:30,055 --> 00:31:31,188
            -Mm-hmm.

683
00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:35,659
  -And this woman, she smiled
   at me and I don't know...

684
00:31:35,694 --> 00:31:37,494
       -What do you mean?

685
00:31:37,529 --> 00:31:39,963
          -No, no, no.
       Nothing like that.

686
00:31:39,999 --> 00:31:43,233
Look, I guess it just felt good
      to feel attractive.

687
00:31:43,269 --> 00:31:44,201
You know I love my wife.

688
00:31:44,236 --> 00:31:46,670
     -See, the worst phrase
      a man can start with

689
00:31:46,705 --> 00:31:47,804
 is "you know I love my wife."

690
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,039
        -okay, no look.

691
00:31:49,074 --> 00:31:52,509
Lately it just feels like we've
been going through the motions

692
00:31:52,544 --> 00:31:55,245
and the intimacy's been missing.

693
00:31:55,281 --> 00:31:56,313
-Have you shared this with her?

694
00:31:56,348 --> 00:31:58,048
         -Yeah, yeah.
        I know, I know.

695
00:31:58,083 --> 00:32:00,951
 -Look, I always tell you, man.
     -I gotta communicate.

696
00:32:04,223 --> 00:32:07,991
    -Oh yes. Yes, yes, yes.

697
00:32:08,027 --> 00:32:10,694
  Wow, mom. You look amazing.

698
00:32:10,729 --> 00:32:11,561
     -You really think so?

699
00:32:11,597 --> 00:32:14,865
-Of course. Here, let me
         take a photo.

700
00:32:17,937 --> 00:32:19,503
    -I feel like it's prom.

701
00:32:19,538 --> 00:32:20,938
       -You do look nice.
        -[shutter snaps]

702
00:32:20,973 --> 00:32:21,905
            -thanks.

703
00:32:21,941 --> 00:32:23,273
      -Leaving nothing to
    the imagination, but...

704
00:32:23,309 --> 00:32:24,107
              -Oh.

705
00:32:24,143 --> 00:32:25,175
       -Mema, she's fine.

706
00:32:25,210 --> 00:32:27,744
      Still don't know who
  this mystery man is, though.

707
00:32:27,780 --> 00:32:30,213
  -Well, we decided to reveal
     our faces in public.

708
00:32:30,249 --> 00:32:33,550
   We thought it would be fun
     to just wait and see.

709
00:32:33,585 --> 00:32:35,385
   -So, he's not even coming
        to pick you up.

710
00:32:35,421 --> 00:32:36,853
-Nope. I'm meeting him
       at the restaurant.

711
00:32:36,889 --> 00:32:37,988
        [shutter snaps]

712
00:32:38,023 --> 00:32:40,624
-in my day, a gentleman escorted
    the lady on their date.

713
00:32:40,659 --> 00:32:41,758
  -In your day, I don't think
          a gentleman

714
00:32:41,794 --> 00:32:44,227
   even saw a woman at night
   unless they were married.

715
00:32:44,263 --> 00:32:45,095
            -[gasps]

716
00:32:45,130 --> 00:32:46,229
              -oh!

717
00:32:46,265 --> 00:32:47,364
        -Ooh, I got you.

718
00:32:47,399 --> 00:32:49,099
            [laughs]

719
00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:51,802
 -okay. Just make sure you call
    me if you need anything.

720
00:32:51,837 --> 00:32:52,636
           Anything.

721
00:32:52,671 --> 00:32:53,937
          -Just relax.

722
00:32:53,973 --> 00:32:55,305
       Aren't you the one
who encouraged me
     to get back out there?

723
00:32:55,341 --> 00:32:57,374
    I'm fine. And thank you.

724
00:32:59,311 --> 00:33:00,577
          -[whispers]
         you got this.

725
00:33:01,613 --> 00:33:16,493
               <i> ♪</i>

726
00:33:16,528 --> 00:33:17,561
               <i> ♪</i>

727
00:33:17,596 --> 00:33:18,862
            -brenda?

728
00:33:28,307 --> 00:33:29,606
            Brenda?

729
00:33:31,043 --> 00:33:31,908
             -Jack?

730
00:33:31,944 --> 00:33:33,243
   -What are you doing here?

731
00:33:33,278 --> 00:33:34,244
             -Uh...

732
00:33:34,279 --> 00:33:35,979
    -I mean, this is weird,
    the two of us, you know.

733
00:33:36,015 --> 00:33:38,782
 Well, I don't mean like that,
            I mean.

734
00:33:38,817 --> 00:33:40,083
        Why am I talking
         with my hands?

735
00:33:40,119 --> 00:33:42,185
           -[laughs]

736
00:33:42,221 --> 00:33:44,187
uh, hi. Wow.

737
00:33:44,223 --> 00:33:46,757
It's... This is, this is crazy.

738
00:33:46,792 --> 00:33:48,258
         -Look at you.
       You look stunning.

739
00:33:48,293 --> 00:33:50,527
       -Well, thank you.

740
00:33:50,562 --> 00:33:53,663
      -I, I can't. I can't
      believe this, um...

741
00:33:53,699 --> 00:33:55,932
        -I know right?
      It's been a minute.

742
00:33:55,968 --> 00:33:58,635
       -Yeah. What, since
       alicia's wedding?

743
00:33:58,670 --> 00:34:00,771
       -Alicia's wedding.
         That's right.

744
00:34:00,806 --> 00:34:04,274
      Yeah. Wow. That was
       a beautiful day.

745
00:34:04,309 --> 00:34:05,609
        -It really was.

746
00:34:06,745 --> 00:34:08,111
      -Hey look. You know,
           I don't...

747
00:34:08,147 --> 00:34:09,479
I don't want to hold you up
         or anything.

748
00:34:09,515 --> 00:34:10,680
     I just wanted to come
          and say hi.

749
00:34:10,716 --> 00:34:13,050
  -Yeah well you know, I don't
  want to hold you up either.

750
00:34:13,085 --> 00:34:14,651
    I mean, I assume you're
         with someone.

751
00:34:14,686 --> 00:34:16,453
   -Yeah, well I mean they're
         not here yet.

752
00:34:16,488 --> 00:34:21,158
     But um, I mean you're
  welcome to have a seat if...

753
00:34:21,193 --> 00:34:22,059
        -Oh, no, no, no.

754
00:34:22,094 --> 00:34:22,893
            [laughs]

755
00:34:22,928 --> 00:34:24,127
        I wouldn't want
      your lady friend to,

756
00:34:24,163 --> 00:34:25,495
       you know, look at
         me sideways.

757
00:34:25,531 --> 00:34:28,198
-[laughs]

758
00:34:28,233 --> 00:34:30,000
   -it's not even like that.

759
00:34:30,035 --> 00:34:31,568
   -I'm assuming you're here
  to meet a gentleman anyway.

760
00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:33,904
       -I am here to meet
       a gentleman, yes.

761
00:34:33,939 --> 00:34:37,207
-Well, you know, it was, it was
    really good seeing you.

762
00:34:37,242 --> 00:34:39,943
    -Yeah. You as well jack,
          you as well.

763
00:34:50,089 --> 00:34:50,987
        -[clears throat]

764
00:34:52,091 --> 00:34:55,025
   hey brenda. Look, I don't
       mean to bug you.

765
00:34:55,060 --> 00:34:58,895
  I, uh, you did say you were
  meeting someone here, right?

766
00:34:58,931 --> 00:35:01,198
    -Yeah. They said they're
         here already.

767
00:35:01,233 --> 00:35:02,732
-Yeah. Same here.

768
00:35:02,768 --> 00:35:08,205
      So, this person, you
   didn't happen to meet them
   on a dating app, did you?

769
00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:10,907
      -Organic chemistry.

770
00:35:12,878 --> 00:35:13,777
        -Finding peace.

771
00:35:13,812 --> 00:35:18,715
       -Oh. No no no no.
    You're looking to laugh?

772
00:35:18,750 --> 00:35:19,916
            -Alicia.

773
00:35:19,952 --> 00:35:23,453
 -I told her it was a bad idea
   this online dating thing.

774
00:35:23,489 --> 00:35:24,654
      Are you kidding me?

775
00:35:24,690 --> 00:35:26,590
  -We gotta at least give her
  credit for at least caring.

776
00:35:26,625 --> 00:35:27,791
      I mean, it's just...

777
00:35:27,826 --> 00:35:28,592
            [laughs]

778
00:35:28,627 --> 00:35:30,193
             -wow.

779
00:35:30,229 --> 00:35:32,229
 -Yeah. Hey, you haven't eaten
yet though, right?

780
00:35:32,264 --> 00:35:33,697
     -No, I haven't eaten.

781
00:35:33,732 --> 00:35:36,533
    -Neither have I and uh,
        well you know,

782
00:35:36,568 --> 00:35:39,269
     we're both hungry and
     you look way too nice

783
00:35:39,304 --> 00:35:41,438
      to waste this dress.

784
00:35:41,473 --> 00:35:43,907
     So, I've got a table,
       how about dinner?

785
00:35:43,942 --> 00:35:44,641
             -I...

786
00:35:44,676 --> 00:35:45,642
         -Just dinner.

787
00:35:45,677 --> 00:35:46,810
              -Oh.

788
00:35:46,845 --> 00:35:48,378
             -Hmm?

789
00:35:48,413 --> 00:35:51,081
      -Okay, just dinner.
         Just dinner.

790
00:35:51,116 --> 00:35:52,449
            Dinner.

791
00:35:54,153 --> 00:35:55,886
               ♪

792
00:35:55,921 --> 00:35:56,453
          -thank you.

793
00:35:56,488 --> 00:35:57,754
     -How much is my half?

794
00:35:57,789 --> 00:35:58,955
       -Come on, brenda.

795
00:35:58,991 --> 00:36:00,891
You know me well enough to know
  I won't accept your money.

796
00:36:00,926 --> 00:36:03,293
 -I just want to make it clear
   that this wasn't a date.

797
00:36:03,328 --> 00:36:04,928
          -Of course.

798
00:36:04,963 --> 00:36:06,997
But can't a man show a beautiful
    woman a little gratitude

799
00:36:07,032 --> 00:36:09,900
     for a lovely evening?

800
00:36:09,935 --> 00:36:14,638
    -It was a lovely evening
      and very unexpected.

801
00:36:14,673 --> 00:36:16,306
     Thank you for dinner,
             jack.

802
00:36:16,341 --> 00:36:17,474
     -Yeah, you're welcome.

803
00:36:18,477 --> 00:36:20,110
   Woah, hey, woah, hold on.

804
00:36:20,145 --> 00:36:21,912
               ♪

805
00:36:21,947 --> 00:36:22,879
            -uh-oh.

806
00:36:22,915 --> 00:36:24,681
     -Oh, come on. Just one
for old times' sake.

807
00:36:24,716 --> 00:36:25,582
      -One for old times?

808
00:36:25,617 --> 00:36:27,450
        -Yeah. Just one.

809
00:36:27,486 --> 00:36:29,519
          [both laugh]

810
00:36:29,555 --> 00:36:39,796
               ♪

811
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,600
  -I can't believe you had us
   battle that other couple.

812
00:36:43,635 --> 00:36:45,202
   -Oh please, you loved it.

813
00:36:45,237 --> 00:36:48,004
  -I did until you started to
break out that soul train line.

814
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,139
     -Okay, maybe that was
          a bit much.

815
00:36:49,174 --> 00:36:50,473
            -A bit?

816
00:36:51,476 --> 00:36:53,343
         -Oh, my gosh.

817
00:36:53,378 --> 00:36:54,411
            [laughs]

818
00:36:54,446 --> 00:36:57,047
 -you remember when you took me
       to see this movie?

819
00:36:57,082 --> 00:36:59,349
      -How could I forget?

820
00:36:59,384 --> 00:37:00,617
You wouldn't sleep
     without the lights on.

821
00:37:00,652 --> 00:37:01,651
             -Shh.

822
00:37:05,157 --> 00:37:06,690
          -[whispers]
        oh, my goodness.

823
00:37:17,202 --> 00:37:19,669
     -Brenda! Is that you?

824
00:37:20,572 --> 00:37:22,305
    -Uh, yeah mom, it's me.

825
00:37:22,341 --> 00:37:24,641
    I'm just, I got up early
           to clean.

826
00:37:24,676 --> 00:37:26,009
         I'll be quiet.

827
00:37:26,044 --> 00:37:27,744
    I'll be quiet so go back
           and rest.

828
00:37:27,779 --> 00:37:30,313
  -[whispers] get up. Get up.
        Time to get up.

829
00:37:30,349 --> 00:37:32,048
        -Hey. Hey, what?
            -Get up.

830
00:37:32,084 --> 00:37:33,283
  Can't let mema see you here.
            Get up.

831
00:37:33,318 --> 00:37:37,020
-Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
Can I at least get some coffee?

832
00:37:37,055 --> 00:37:38,922
 -No, you can't get any coffee.
        You have to go.

833
00:37:38,957 --> 00:37:40,056
    Let me get your jacket.

834
00:37:40,626 --> 00:37:41,558
       Millions of people
        on the internet,

835
00:37:41,593 --> 00:37:43,827
     only I would reconnect
      with my ex-husband.

836
00:37:43,862 --> 00:37:46,029
 -Well, the irony is, it wasn't
       that bad, was it?

837
00:37:46,064 --> 00:37:48,598
  -No, but you don't know me
 anymore and I don't know you.

838
00:37:48,634 --> 00:37:50,333
   -Okay. But the familiarity
            is nice.

839
00:37:50,369 --> 00:37:51,534
     At least it is for me.

840
00:37:51,570 --> 00:37:52,669
          -Yeah, sure.

841
00:37:52,704 --> 00:37:54,104
-You know you gotta admit.

842
00:37:54,139 --> 00:37:56,172
     I mean, it's funny how
    our daughter unknowingly

843
00:37:56,208 --> 00:37:57,674
     found a way to get us
        back together.

844
00:37:57,709 --> 00:37:58,541
  -No, we're not back together

845
00:37:58,577 --> 00:38:00,877
       and she can't know
       about this, okay?

846
00:38:00,912 --> 00:38:02,145
     -Brenda, I didn't mean
         it like that.

847
00:38:02,180 --> 00:38:05,048
 Of course, my lips are sealed.
 I'm not going to say anything.

848
00:38:05,083 --> 00:38:07,584
   Okay. Let me uh, sneak out

849
00:38:07,619 --> 00:38:10,654
 before your mother catches me
       in my old house.

850
00:38:12,624 --> 00:38:13,757
     -It's nice to see you.

851
00:38:21,667 --> 00:38:25,869
               ♪

852
00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:26,936
-morning beautiful.

853
00:38:28,173 --> 00:38:30,907
-Hey. Do you know, I called my
mom about four times last night

854
00:38:30,942 --> 00:38:32,475
    and she's yet to return
           my call?

855
00:38:32,511 --> 00:38:33,543
     -Your mother's grown.

856
00:38:33,578 --> 00:38:36,379
 She probably stayed out later
      than she's used to

857
00:38:36,415 --> 00:38:38,815
  and she's simply recovering.

858
00:38:38,850 --> 00:38:40,884
 She hasn't been out in years.

859
00:38:40,919 --> 00:38:42,419
         -True I guess.

860
00:38:42,454 --> 00:38:44,721
   -Did you speak with mema?

861
00:38:44,756 --> 00:38:46,589
           -Mema? No.

862
00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:49,592
  No, I didn't want it to seem
 like I was checking up on her.

863
00:38:49,628 --> 00:38:50,960
        -Which you are.

864
00:38:50,996 --> 00:38:51,995
             -Haha.

865
00:38:52,030 --> 00:38:54,464
-What about jack?
  What's the latest with him?

866
00:38:54,499 --> 00:38:56,900
 Well, um, he's been quiet too.

867
00:38:56,935 --> 00:39:00,337
 But, um, we're meeting up for
a walk in the park so we'll see.

868
00:39:00,372 --> 00:39:04,341
 -You know, that would actually
 be nice for us to do sometime.

869
00:39:04,376 --> 00:39:05,442
         -I... I know.

870
00:39:05,477 --> 00:39:07,744
           -Goodbye.
           -Love you.

871
00:39:09,614 --> 00:39:12,682
    -Come on, come on. I got
       good energy today.

872
00:39:12,718 --> 00:39:13,750
           -I'm sure.

873
00:39:13,785 --> 00:39:15,418
  It must be all that hanging
     out in these streets

874
00:39:15,454 --> 00:39:16,786
    that's giving you life.

875
00:39:16,822 --> 00:39:18,121
           [chuckles]
the streets?

876
00:39:18,156 --> 00:39:20,490
 -My, have times changed, huh?

877
00:39:20,525 --> 00:39:21,558
           -Exactly.

878
00:39:21,593 --> 00:39:23,460
   Because now you're acting
    more like the teenager.

879
00:39:23,495 --> 00:39:24,928
           -[laughs]

880
00:39:24,963 --> 00:39:26,763
   -what are you laughing at?

881
00:39:26,798 --> 00:39:28,331
     -Who's the parent now?

882
00:39:28,367 --> 00:39:29,265
     -I'm just saying dad,

883
00:39:29,301 --> 00:39:31,501
     it's irresponsible not
       to return my call.

884
00:39:31,536 --> 00:39:32,502
       -What, I told you
         I had a date.

885
00:39:32,537 --> 00:39:34,170
 -Which you still haven't said
        anything about.

886
00:39:34,206 --> 00:39:36,039
        I mean anything
       could've happened.

887
00:39:36,074 --> 00:39:37,640
      I was worried, dad.

888
00:39:37,676 --> 00:39:39,542
-Okay, okay, okay, okay.
        All right, look.

889
00:39:39,578 --> 00:39:41,811
    You're right. I'm sorry.
       I apologize, okay?

890
00:39:41,847 --> 00:39:44,848
   I should've called and let
      you know I was fine.

891
00:39:44,883 --> 00:39:47,617
     -Okay, well thank you.

892
00:39:47,652 --> 00:39:49,719
   But from the looks of it
seems like you had a good date.

893
00:39:49,755 --> 00:39:51,354
         -Yeah. I did.

894
00:39:51,390 --> 00:39:53,056
              -So?

895
00:39:53,091 --> 00:39:56,192
     -So uh, it was great.
        She was great.

896
00:39:56,228 --> 00:39:58,161
-Okay, it feels like I'm pulling
          teeth here.

897
00:39:58,196 --> 00:40:00,330
     What did you guys do?
    What does she look like?

898
00:40:00,365 --> 00:40:01,664
What is her name?

899
00:40:01,700 --> 00:40:02,565
        -[sighs heavily]

900
00:40:02,601 --> 00:40:03,433
      -give me something.

901
00:40:03,468 --> 00:40:05,702
       -She's beautiful,
       we ate, we danced,

902
00:40:05,737 --> 00:40:08,138
      we had a great time.

903
00:40:08,173 --> 00:40:11,574
       -Aw, look at you.
    So when's the next date?

904
00:40:11,610 --> 00:40:13,042
    -You know, I don't know.

905
00:40:13,078 --> 00:40:13,943
We, uh, I think we both decided

906
00:40:13,979 --> 00:40:17,080
   that maybe there won't be
         a next date.

907
00:40:17,115 --> 00:40:19,249
         -[stammers]
      what? I'm confused.

908
00:40:19,284 --> 00:40:22,051
      -She's still trying
      to get over an ex.

909
00:40:22,087 --> 00:40:22,986
            -I see.

910
00:40:23,021 --> 00:40:24,220
            [sighs]

911
00:40:24,256 --> 00:40:24,954
well just give it time.

912
00:40:24,990 --> 00:40:26,489
        I mean, you know
        you have a habit

913
00:40:26,525 --> 00:40:29,859
    of being affectionately
         overbearing.

914
00:40:29,895 --> 00:40:32,429
 -Just let her know that you'll
   wait as long as she needs.

915
00:40:32,464 --> 00:40:34,831
  You can still take it slow
and get to know someone, right?

916
00:40:34,866 --> 00:40:36,566
  -Okay. Come on miss advice.

917
00:40:36,601 --> 00:40:39,002
    -Okay, okay take it slow
     on the way back, okay?

918
00:40:39,037 --> 00:40:39,936
            Come on.

919
00:40:39,971 --> 00:40:42,639
     I can't really keep up
       with you anymore.

920
00:40:44,910 --> 00:40:46,242
       [knocking at door]

921
00:40:46,278 --> 00:40:47,210
           -come in.

922
00:40:48,380 --> 00:40:49,579
             -Hey.

923
00:40:49,915 --> 00:40:51,548
-Jack, what are you doing here?

924
00:40:51,583 --> 00:40:53,850
       -I see some things
        haven't changed.

925
00:40:53,885 --> 00:40:56,052
   Still burning the midnight
           oil, huh?

926
00:40:56,087 --> 00:40:57,720
    -Well, it's not exactly
           midnight.

927
00:40:57,756 --> 00:41:00,590
   -Yeah, well it's not quite
      office hours either.

928
00:41:00,625 --> 00:41:01,524
             May I?

929
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:02,392
             -Um...

930
00:41:02,427 --> 00:41:06,162
 -Just, just, just hear me out.
            Hold on.

931
00:41:07,766 --> 00:41:10,099
   This morning when you said
        that, you know,

932
00:41:10,135 --> 00:41:11,234
   we don't know each other.

933
00:41:11,269 --> 00:41:12,635
    At first it bothered me
        but, you know,

934
00:41:12,671 --> 00:41:14,637
I started thinking about it
       and you're right.

935
00:41:14,673 --> 00:41:17,607
   You're absolutely right.
   We don't know each other.

936
00:41:17,642 --> 00:41:20,310
 I mean, I've certainly changed
     since we were together

937
00:41:20,345 --> 00:41:22,479
   and I'm assuming you have
           as well.

938
00:41:22,514 --> 00:41:23,813
         -Yes, I have.

939
00:41:23,849 --> 00:41:27,650
    -So, I was thinking, um,
         why don't we,

940
00:41:27,686 --> 00:41:30,553
   I don't know, spend some
  time relearning each other?

941
00:41:30,589 --> 00:41:31,454
    -Relearning each other?

942
00:41:31,490 --> 00:41:32,722
    Okay, I don't even know
       what that means.

943
00:41:32,757 --> 00:41:36,159
Uh, last night really was great.
I'm just, I'm not interested.

944
00:41:36,194 --> 00:41:38,061
       [knocking at door]

945
00:41:38,363 --> 00:41:41,431
  -oh. Sorry, doctor roberts.
     Do you have a minute?

946
00:41:41,466 --> 00:41:43,333
     -Yeah sure, of course.

947
00:41:43,368 --> 00:41:45,235
    -Just hoping you could
   sign-off on this formation

948
00:41:45,270 --> 00:41:46,402
       before I head out.

949
00:41:46,438 --> 00:41:47,871
       -Yeah. No problem.

950
00:41:51,776 --> 00:41:52,842
        -It looks great.
             -Yeah.

951
00:41:52,878 --> 00:41:53,676
        -Yeah, terrific.

952
00:41:53,712 --> 00:41:55,612
  -I'm pretty happy with that.
            -Great.

953
00:41:55,647 --> 00:41:58,815
  -Okay, I'll let you get back
        to your meeting.

954
00:41:58,850 --> 00:42:00,450
       -Okay. Goodnight.
          -Goodnight.

955
00:42:02,721 --> 00:42:04,320
-You know, you could've
        introduced us.

956
00:42:04,356 --> 00:42:05,989
      -Yes, I could have.

957
00:42:07,292 --> 00:42:11,127
  -So, is that the reason why
 you don't want to hear me out?

958
00:42:11,162 --> 00:42:12,695
          -[stammers]
   no. Well, he's a colleague

959
00:42:12,731 --> 00:42:14,330
        and that's none
       of your business.

960
00:42:14,366 --> 00:42:17,033
      -Okay. You're right.
   You know what, back to us.

961
00:42:17,068 --> 00:42:20,370
   -See but there is no "us"
   is the whole point, right?

962
00:42:20,405 --> 00:42:22,672
    Why do you want to meet
           so badly?

963
00:42:22,707 --> 00:42:23,940
         -I don't know.

964
00:42:23,975 --> 00:42:26,376
I just, I think there's a lot of
things we haven't spoken about.

965
00:42:26,411 --> 00:42:29,812
-Well, because we haven't spoken
        for a long time.

966
00:42:29,848 --> 00:42:31,447
      Do you want closure
         or something?

967
00:42:31,483 --> 00:42:32,815
      -No, no. I wouldn't
       call it closure.

968
00:42:32,851 --> 00:42:34,117
          A check-in?

969
00:42:34,152 --> 00:42:36,619
   Look, last night was fun.
         It was great.

970
00:42:36,655 --> 00:42:38,221
        It was special.

971
00:42:38,256 --> 00:42:41,157
  A moment is all I'm asking.

972
00:42:41,192 --> 00:42:43,026
 Oh come on. I mean is it wrong
         for two people

973
00:42:43,061 --> 00:42:45,495
that's familiar with each other
      to share a moment?

974
00:42:45,530 --> 00:42:46,663
     -It's not that simple.

975
00:42:46,698 --> 00:42:48,398
-Well, it could be.

976
00:42:48,433 --> 00:42:51,668
    Let's, let's just go out
          as friends.

977
00:42:51,703 --> 00:42:52,835
           -[laughs]
          as friends?

978
00:42:52,871 --> 00:42:53,970
        -Friends, yeah.
        Acquaintances.

979
00:42:54,005 --> 00:42:57,040
 Whatever you want to call it.
     We'll keep it simple.

980
00:42:57,075 --> 00:42:58,675
       You know, knowing
         the two of us

981
00:42:58,710 --> 00:43:00,810
I'll probably get on your nerves
    before tomorrow anyway.

982
00:43:00,845 --> 00:43:02,545
So, this will all be irrelevant.

983
00:43:02,581 --> 00:43:05,181
     -It is probably true.

984
00:43:05,216 --> 00:43:06,082
            [laughs]

985
00:43:06,117 --> 00:43:07,684
          as friends.

986
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,586
          -That's it.

987
00:43:09,621 --> 00:43:10,386
-All right.

988
00:43:10,422 --> 00:43:11,187
             -Cool.

989
00:43:11,222 --> 00:43:12,055
         -Okay friend.

990
00:43:12,090 --> 00:43:13,990
   -All right. I'll call you.

991
00:43:14,025 --> 00:43:15,592
             -Okay.

992
00:43:15,627 --> 00:43:18,428
               <i> ♪</i>

993
00:43:18,463 --> 00:43:21,164
          ♪<i> it's me</i> ♪

994
00:43:21,199 --> 00:43:23,766
       ♪<i> then it's you</i> ♪

995
00:43:23,802 --> 00:43:28,404
   ♪<i> completely take my mind</i>
         <i> and renew</i> ♪

996
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:29,572
           ♪<i> renew</i> ♪

997
00:43:29,608 --> 00:43:35,278
    ♪<i> so amazing I can't let</i>
         <i> you go away</i> ♪

998
00:43:35,313 --> 00:43:37,513
     ♪<i> every time I move</i> ♪

999
00:43:37,549 --> 00:43:40,917
  <i> ♪ you pull my heartstrings</i>
          <i> to stay ♪</i>

1000
00:43:40,952 --> 00:43:42,518
<i>♪ when I wake in the morning ♪</i>

1001
00:43:42,554 --> 00:43:43,686
         <i> ♪ it's you ♪</i>

1002
00:43:43,722 --> 00:43:45,021
     ♪<i> I lay down at night</i>

1003
00:43:45,056 --> 00:43:46,189
         <i> ♪ it's you</i> ♪

1004
00:43:46,224 --> 00:43:50,727
  ♪<i> my heart opens like a door</i>
           <i> to you</i> ♪

1005
00:43:50,762 --> 00:43:52,228
          ♪<i> it's you</i> ♪

1006
00:43:52,263 --> 00:43:53,763
     ♪<i> when I close my eyes</i>

1007
00:43:53,798 --> 00:43:55,098
         <i> ♪ it's you</i> ♪

1008
00:43:55,133 --> 00:43:56,733
      ♪<i> when I pray to god</i>

1009
00:43:56,768 --> 00:43:59,068
         <i> ♪ it's you</i> ♪

1010
00:43:59,104 --> 00:44:02,138
          <i> ♪ my love ♪</i>

1011
00:44:02,173 --> 00:44:04,273
          ♪<i> it's you</i> ♪

1012
00:44:04,309 --> 00:44:09,212
     ♪<i> heartbeat right here</i>
        <i> next to mine</i> ♪

1013
00:44:09,247 --> 00:44:11,080
♪<i> it feels so right</i> ♪

1014
00:44:11,116 --> 00:44:13,516
     ♪<i> I don't know a love</i>
        <i> of this kind</i> ♪

1015
00:44:14,152 --> 00:44:15,218
              -31.

1016
00:44:16,755 --> 00:44:19,889
  I'm talking about that look
         on your face.

1017
00:44:19,924 --> 00:44:22,792
Clearly this new friend of yours
    has left an impression.

1018
00:44:22,827 --> 00:44:23,593
            -[sighs]

1019
00:44:25,296 --> 00:44:27,163
     -you can brush me off
         if you want.

1020
00:44:27,198 --> 00:44:28,931
     But I know that look.

1021
00:44:28,967 --> 00:44:31,334
  Shoot, I invented that look.

1022
00:44:31,369 --> 00:44:33,002
          Your father,
       god rest his soul,

1023
00:44:33,038 --> 00:44:35,672
     would keep me smiling
        just like that

1024
00:44:35,707 --> 00:44:39,409
even when we weren't in
    the same room together.

1025
00:44:39,444 --> 00:44:42,879
  Actually, I haven't seen you
    smile this much since...

1026
00:44:45,684 --> 00:44:49,752
       I'm happy for you.
       Just take it easy.

1027
00:44:49,788 --> 00:44:54,290
     Your heart is fragile.
        Always has been.

1028
00:44:54,325 --> 00:44:59,629
  And make sure whoever he is
       is aware of that.

1029
00:44:59,664 --> 00:45:00,730
             -Okay.

1030
00:45:02,033 --> 00:45:03,900
      [notification alert]

1031
00:45:06,004 --> 00:45:08,905
               ♪

1032
00:45:14,279 --> 00:45:17,447
    -what is the latest with
     the anniversary plans?

1033
00:45:17,482 --> 00:45:19,048
     You haven't asked me
     to cover your shifts.

1034
00:45:19,084 --> 00:45:21,284
     Make any reservations?
What's up?

1035
00:45:21,319 --> 00:45:23,219
      -I think we're going
       to keep it simple.

1036
00:45:23,254 --> 00:45:25,621
   Arnold mentioned something
     about going to a cabin

1037
00:45:25,657 --> 00:45:26,789
       over the weekend.

1038
00:45:26,825 --> 00:45:29,258
      -Whatever you decide
         you might want

1039
00:45:29,294 --> 00:45:31,461
  to leave your phone at home
       over the weekend.

1040
00:45:31,496 --> 00:45:32,295
 Don't think I haven't noticed

1041
00:45:32,330 --> 00:45:33,329
    you checking your phone
         all morning.

1042
00:45:33,364 --> 00:45:36,065
  Your mom's going to call you
       when she's ready.

1043
00:45:36,101 --> 00:45:37,867
  -It's just so not like her.

1044
00:45:37,902 --> 00:45:39,936
     You know she cancelled
our weekly lunch date?

1045
00:45:39,971 --> 00:45:42,371
      -Just relax, crazy.

1046
00:45:42,407 --> 00:45:44,774
   I'm sure arnold would love
       to enjoy his wife

1047
00:45:44,809 --> 00:45:49,245
 without parental interruptions
           for once.

1048
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:50,713
             -Okay.

1049
00:45:53,818 --> 00:45:55,251
           -[groans]

1050
00:45:55,286 --> 00:45:57,120
         -easy big guy.

1051
00:45:57,155 --> 00:46:00,456
   Looks like someone needed
    to relieve some stress.

1052
00:46:00,492 --> 00:46:02,225
           What's up?

1053
00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:03,259
            -[sighs]

1054
00:46:05,130 --> 00:46:08,064
 my wife seems more interested

1055
00:46:08,099 --> 00:46:10,733
   in her parents' love life
   than planning our family.

1056
00:46:10,769 --> 00:46:11,667
       -Your parents have
       been honeymooning

1057
00:46:11,703 --> 00:46:13,169
since you've been born.

1058
00:46:13,204 --> 00:46:17,440
    Alicia's broke up, what,
     when she was 12 or 13?

1059
00:46:17,475 --> 00:46:18,674
     -What's that got to do
            with it?

1060
00:46:18,710 --> 00:46:21,644
   -As another divorce child
        I can tell you,

1061
00:46:21,679 --> 00:46:24,280
that wound doesn't heal quickly.

1062
00:46:24,315 --> 00:46:25,648
      Give her some grace.

1063
00:46:25,683 --> 00:46:27,917
    And again, let her know
         how you feel.

1064
00:46:27,952 --> 00:46:29,752
If you tell her you want a child
        and she doesn't,

1065
00:46:29,788 --> 00:46:31,687
 well that's a different issue.

1066
00:46:31,723 --> 00:46:33,456
     But at least you know
       where she stands

1067
00:46:33,491 --> 00:46:35,491
  instead of trying to guess.

1068
00:46:36,561 --> 00:46:38,327
Let's get back to it, man.

1069
00:46:38,363 --> 00:46:39,295
          -All right.

1070
00:46:43,468 --> 00:46:45,802
    -Nice of you to check in
             on me.

1071
00:46:45,837 --> 00:46:47,036
    And as for your mother,

1072
00:46:47,071 --> 00:46:49,105
 she's been running around here
  with her head in the clouds.

1073
00:46:49,140 --> 00:46:52,308
  -Yeah. Seems like this guy's
   really got her going, huh?

1074
00:46:52,343 --> 00:46:53,342
            -Mmmhmm.

1075
00:46:53,378 --> 00:46:54,310
       -Have you met him?

1076
00:46:54,345 --> 00:46:55,511
              -No.

1077
00:46:55,547 --> 00:46:58,714
  She insists it's not serious
  enough to bring him around.

1078
00:46:58,750 --> 00:47:00,449
       She just left here
       not too long ago,

1079
00:47:00,485 --> 00:47:02,618
   said they were headed out
to selena's.

1080
00:47:02,654 --> 00:47:05,154
  I just told her not to have
  her fancy tail out all night

1081
00:47:05,190 --> 00:47:07,056
    running in the streets.

1082
00:47:07,091 --> 00:47:09,859
   Anyway, how's that husband
           of yours?

1083
00:47:09,894 --> 00:47:12,495
       -He's doing good.

1084
00:47:12,530 --> 00:47:16,699
  Actually, I need to go home
       to meet him now.

1085
00:47:16,734 --> 00:47:19,035
   -All right, well, I won't
         hold you up.

1086
00:47:19,070 --> 00:47:21,304
      And finish that tea
      before you head out.

1087
00:47:21,339 --> 00:47:23,873
          -Yes, ma'am.

1088
00:47:23,908 --> 00:47:25,308
         -And listen...

1089
00:47:26,544 --> 00:47:30,513
 I know how much you care about
  your mother and your father.

1090
00:47:30,548 --> 00:47:32,248
Ever since their divorce
      you've been working

1091
00:47:32,283 --> 00:47:35,151
to put the pieces of the puzzle
        back together.

1092
00:47:35,186 --> 00:47:40,556
    But you have to realize
     that's their puzzle.

1093
00:47:40,592 --> 00:47:44,026
     Your joy lies in you.

1094
00:47:44,062 --> 00:47:47,864
       Piecing together
       your own journey.

1095
00:47:51,102 --> 00:47:55,171
               ♪

1096
00:48:00,078 --> 00:48:01,777
          -hey there.

1097
00:48:01,813 --> 00:48:05,548
    I thought we could start
this anniversary a little early.

1098
00:48:05,583 --> 00:48:07,617
   -Aww, I wish I had known.

1099
00:48:07,652 --> 00:48:11,020
I actually made us reservations
     at selena's tonight.

1100
00:48:11,055 --> 00:48:12,121
              -Oh.

1101
00:48:12,156 --> 00:48:13,756
     - I should've called.

1102
00:48:13,791 --> 00:48:17,560
How about we go there
        and we can save

1103
00:48:17,595 --> 00:48:20,630
 this amazing meal you planned
      for tomorrow night?

1104
00:48:20,665 --> 00:48:24,700
  -Selena's on a weekday, huh?
  Doesn't even sound like you.

1105
00:48:24,736 --> 00:48:29,438
   -Okay. As you know, my mom
has been short with me all week.

1106
00:48:29,474 --> 00:48:30,306
          -Of course.

1107
00:48:30,341 --> 00:48:31,374
    I should've known it had
        something to do

1108
00:48:31,409 --> 00:48:32,208
   with one of your parents.

1109
00:48:32,243 --> 00:48:33,442
      -Look, hear me out.

1110
00:48:33,478 --> 00:48:36,545
So, I go to mema's house to look
  for her and she's not there.

1111
00:48:36,581 --> 00:48:38,214
     So, mema tells me that
        she and this guy

1112
00:48:38,249 --> 00:48:40,950
are going to selena's tonight.

1113
00:48:40,985 --> 00:48:44,220
-So, you spent all day worrying
        about your mom,

1114
00:48:44,255 --> 00:48:45,922
but now you want me to join in?

1115
00:48:45,957 --> 00:48:49,926
  -I mean, not just for that.
     I figured we could...

1116
00:48:49,961 --> 00:48:53,562
     -A romantic stakeout.
  -Exactly. Sounds fun, right?

1117
00:48:53,598 --> 00:48:54,764
    -No, I'm going to pass.

1118
00:48:54,799 --> 00:48:55,798
         -Oh, come on.

1119
00:48:55,833 --> 00:48:58,834
   We can eat and catch them
     in the act. Win-win.

1120
00:48:58,870 --> 00:49:00,636
           -For who?

1121
00:49:00,672 --> 00:49:02,104
      See, I don't get why
       you're so obsessed

1122
00:49:02,140 --> 00:49:04,473
       with what your mom
     or your dad are doing.

1123
00:49:04,509 --> 00:49:07,276
As long as they're happy,
       what's the issue?

1124
00:49:07,312 --> 00:49:09,078
  -Well, I knew you were going
          to say that.

1125
00:49:09,113 --> 00:49:11,781
  Maybe kam will come with me.

1126
00:49:11,816 --> 00:49:13,449
    I'm not going to be gone
     that long, I promise.

1127
00:49:13,484 --> 00:49:14,450
     -Look, I hope you find

1128
00:49:14,485 --> 00:49:17,420
     whatever it is you're
     actually looking for.

1129
00:49:19,223 --> 00:49:20,256
             -Babe.

1130
00:49:24,662 --> 00:49:26,796
    -Remember when you froze
  in the middle of your speech

1131
00:49:26,831 --> 00:49:28,464
   at your company reception?

1132
00:49:28,499 --> 00:49:29,532
           -Oh, yeah.

1133
00:49:29,567 --> 00:49:31,000
     And you had to get up
   and finish my thank yous.

1134
00:49:31,035 --> 00:49:31,801
-Mm-hmm.

1135
00:49:31,836 --> 00:49:33,202
       -I've always hated
        public speaking

1136
00:49:33,237 --> 00:49:35,171
   and you're so good at it.

1137
00:49:35,206 --> 00:49:37,807
-Always walking on the outside.
   You're such a gentleman.

1138
00:49:37,842 --> 00:49:39,875
 -You know it used to frustrate
   me when you'd be mad at me

1139
00:49:39,911 --> 00:49:41,444
    and wouldn't let me walk
      on the outside lane.

1140
00:49:41,479 --> 00:49:42,044
       It drove me crazy.

1141
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,846
            -I know.

1142
00:49:43,881 --> 00:49:44,880
          -Woah, woah.

1143
00:49:44,916 --> 00:49:46,515
   -What? What's the matter?
    -We can't go in there.

1144
00:49:46,551 --> 00:49:47,350
           -Why not?

1145
00:49:47,385 --> 00:49:49,819
     -Look. Alicia and kam.

1146
00:49:49,854 --> 00:49:51,354
     -Oh, no, no. We can't
go in there.

1147
00:49:51,389 --> 00:49:52,655
      -Okay. Don't worry,
      I got a backup plan.

1148
00:49:52,690 --> 00:49:53,656
             -Okay.

1149
00:49:57,195 --> 00:50:00,830
     <i> [romantic jazz music]</i>
               <i> ♪</i>

1150
00:50:00,865 --> 00:50:03,666
    -why do I feel this was
     your plan all along?

1151
00:50:03,701 --> 00:50:04,900
      -Of course, it was.

1152
00:50:04,936 --> 00:50:08,971
  I staged alicia catching us
 going out to dinner together.

1153
00:50:09,007 --> 00:50:10,906
        -Do not give me
       that much credit.

1154
00:50:10,942 --> 00:50:12,842
        [glasses clink]

1155
00:50:12,877 --> 00:50:14,010
      -speaking of which,

1156
00:50:14,045 --> 00:50:16,479
  what have you told her about
   the person you're seeing?

1157
00:50:16,514 --> 00:50:17,346
              -Mm.

1158
00:50:18,483 --> 00:50:21,384
Just that she's the most
  amazing woman in the world.

1159
00:50:21,419 --> 00:50:25,521
 -I'm serious. I've been trying
   really hard to avoid her.

1160
00:50:25,556 --> 00:50:27,390
      I just, I don't know
          what to say.

1161
00:50:27,425 --> 00:50:28,691
   I mean, we can't tell her
          about this.

1162
00:50:28,726 --> 00:50:30,159
      She'd be devastated.

1163
00:50:30,194 --> 00:50:33,029
    -What, that her parents
      are back together?

1164
00:50:33,064 --> 00:50:34,263
     -Back together? I'm...

1165
00:50:34,298 --> 00:50:36,165
       -Brenda. You know
         what I meant.

1166
00:50:37,969 --> 00:50:38,834
             -Jack.

1167
00:50:40,705 --> 00:50:43,239
    This last week has been
          great fun.

1168
00:50:43,274 --> 00:50:46,008
 Let's just call it what it is.
It's a fling.

1169
00:50:46,044 --> 00:50:47,576
           -A fling?

1170
00:50:47,612 --> 00:50:49,111
      I wouldn't say that.

1171
00:50:49,147 --> 00:50:52,448
  -Well, outside of the laughs
        and the romance,

1172
00:50:52,483 --> 00:50:54,784
     what have we actually
          discussed?

1173
00:50:54,819 --> 00:50:55,918
 Signing those divorce papers,

1174
00:50:55,953 --> 00:50:58,554
     that was the worst day
          of my life.

1175
00:50:58,589 --> 00:51:01,757
And sure we've been cordial all
these years for alicia's sake,

1176
00:51:01,793 --> 00:51:04,060
       but we never even
   checked in on each other.

1177
00:51:04,095 --> 00:51:06,128
      And for years I was
      questioning myself.

1178
00:51:06,164 --> 00:51:07,029
       What could I have
       done differently?

1179
00:51:07,065 --> 00:51:08,731
What could you have
       done differently?

1180
00:51:08,766 --> 00:51:10,800
      I didn't even date.

1181
00:51:10,835 --> 00:51:13,736
    I wasn't even interested
     in a man in that way.

1182
00:51:13,771 --> 00:51:17,139
    Then just as I'm about
   to give love another shot

1183
00:51:17,175 --> 00:51:20,643
  you magically appear and...

1184
00:51:20,678 --> 00:51:23,813
-Okay. So, is that a bad thing?

1185
00:51:23,848 --> 00:51:26,882
         -I don't know.

1186
00:51:26,918 --> 00:51:31,787
         I'm confused.
      What happened to us?

1187
00:51:31,823 --> 00:51:33,155
            -[sighs]

1188
00:51:33,191 --> 00:51:35,925
     brenda, we were young.

1189
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:40,296
 You know, we were both trying
 to make a name for ourselves

1190
00:51:40,331 --> 00:51:44,066
  in our respective fields and
somehow I think we just lost

1191
00:51:44,102 --> 00:51:48,604
   a sense of our priorities
and started putting work first.

1192
00:51:48,639 --> 00:51:50,739
 And then. You know, I started
  having these weird feelings

1193
00:51:50,775 --> 00:51:56,612
like the more I tried to protect
you the less receptive you were.

1194
00:51:56,647 --> 00:51:58,114
  -Well, see that's the whole
         thing, jack.

1195
00:51:58,149 --> 00:51:59,849
     Protect me from what?

1196
00:51:59,884 --> 00:52:03,419
 I was looking for a partner.
 I didn't need another father.

1197
00:52:03,454 --> 00:52:05,020
   It was like... It was like
       you didn't want me

1198
00:52:05,056 --> 00:52:05,888
     to grow or something.

1199
00:52:05,923 --> 00:52:08,090
         -No, no, no.
That wasn't it at all.

1200
00:52:08,126 --> 00:52:13,629
  I just... I stopped knowing
    how to make you happy.

1201
00:52:13,664 --> 00:52:14,563
 And then I didn't feel needed.

1202
00:52:14,599 --> 00:52:16,966
    You know, at some point
      I didn't even know

1203
00:52:17,001 --> 00:52:18,968
       where my place was
       in your busy life.

1204
00:52:19,003 --> 00:52:22,271
        -Your place was
       right by my side.

1205
00:52:22,306 --> 00:52:26,175
        Championing me.
     Just like I would you.

1206
00:52:26,210 --> 00:52:28,978
     -Right, right, right.
        I get that now.

1207
00:52:29,013 --> 00:52:30,513
       -No, but you can't
          get that now

1208
00:52:30,548 --> 00:52:33,415
 because we're just now talking
           about it.

1209
00:52:35,486 --> 00:52:36,552
-I don't know.

1210
00:52:36,587 --> 00:52:39,822
 I just know that I don't want
      to live in a bubble

1211
00:52:39,857 --> 00:52:43,959
      knowing that it will
       eventually burst.

1212
00:52:43,995 --> 00:52:45,828
       -I'm going to go.
       I need to go home.

1213
00:52:45,863 --> 00:52:46,462
            -Brenda.

1214
00:52:46,497 --> 00:52:47,796
   -No I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1215
00:52:47,832 --> 00:52:49,031
        -Brenda. Brenda.

1216
00:52:55,706 --> 00:52:56,972
            [sighs]

1217
00:53:05,383 --> 00:53:06,515
            -[sighs]

1218
00:53:27,371 --> 00:53:31,340
  -hey. I um, special ordered
      you some breakfast

1219
00:53:31,375 --> 00:53:33,008
   from selena's last night.

1220
00:53:33,044 --> 00:53:35,144
   It's just in the microwave
   if you want to heat it up.

1221
00:53:35,179 --> 00:53:38,380
 -Thanks. But keeping it light
this morning.

1222
00:53:38,416 --> 00:53:40,115
 Got a late night so I'm going
       to grab something

1223
00:53:40,151 --> 00:53:41,984
   on the way home from work.

1224
00:53:42,019 --> 00:53:44,653
  There's leftovers from last
 night if you want that later.

1225
00:53:49,327 --> 00:53:51,660
       -Look. I'm sorry
       about last night.

1226
00:53:54,031 --> 00:53:55,164
  -Did you catch your mother?

1227
00:53:55,199 --> 00:53:58,367
   -No, no. She wasn't there.

1228
00:53:59,837 --> 00:54:01,470
     I shouldn't have gone.

1229
00:54:04,108 --> 00:54:05,608
            Arnold.

1230
00:54:06,844 --> 00:54:07,977
         -What, alicia?

1231
00:54:08,012 --> 00:54:09,478
    -I know we need to talk,

1232
00:54:09,513 --> 00:54:13,182
   so can you just please say
     what you're thinking?

1233
00:54:13,217 --> 00:54:15,751
      -What I'm thinking.

1234
00:54:15,786 --> 00:54:18,554
I don't know, to be honest
           with you.

1235
00:54:18,589 --> 00:54:20,389
       -You don't get it.

1236
00:54:20,424 --> 00:54:23,826
      I mean, your parents
        are different...

1237
00:54:23,861 --> 00:54:28,030
  -Yeah. My parents have been
  together for 40 years now.

1238
00:54:28,065 --> 00:54:30,032
           Thank god.

1239
00:54:30,067 --> 00:54:32,735
 And I couldn't imagine either
  of them without each other.

1240
00:54:32,770 --> 00:54:37,273
 Which is why I've tried to be
 so patient and understanding.

1241
00:54:37,308 --> 00:54:39,375
       But it feels like

1242
00:54:39,410 --> 00:54:44,380
    if we aren't discussing
 your parents in some capacity

1243
00:54:44,415 --> 00:54:47,082
 then we aren't even speaking.

1244
00:54:47,118 --> 00:54:52,855
    So, uh, last night after
enjoying my exquisite meal alone

1245
00:54:52,890 --> 00:54:56,091
  I decided that maybe I'm...

1246
00:54:56,127 --> 00:54:58,394
     Maybe I've been doing
           too much.

1247
00:54:58,429 --> 00:55:02,164
        And maybe, maybe
        we're not ready.

1248
00:55:03,567 --> 00:55:05,601
      -Uh, ready for what?

1249
00:55:07,938 --> 00:55:09,238
           -Exactly.

1250
00:55:10,341 --> 00:55:11,674
      I'll see you later.

1251
00:55:17,615 --> 00:55:19,748
           -Mr. Mia.

1252
00:55:19,784 --> 00:55:20,783
             -Hey.

1253
00:55:22,687 --> 00:55:24,453
           -So, okay.

1254
00:55:24,488 --> 00:55:26,822
 I know it feels like I've been
      ducking you lately,

1255
00:55:26,857 --> 00:55:29,958
   but it's not that at all.
       Just hear me out.

1256
00:55:29,994 --> 00:55:31,894
        -I'm listening.

1257
00:55:31,929 --> 00:55:37,299
    -So, the uh, the reason
I've been so reluctant

1258
00:55:37,335 --> 00:55:40,402
 to introduce you to the woman
      that I'm seeing is,

1259
00:55:40,438 --> 00:55:41,570
 well, you know, how you always
           get on me

1260
00:55:41,605 --> 00:55:45,507
   about ending relationships
  the minute they get serious?

1261
00:55:45,543 --> 00:55:47,943
I didn't want to, I didn't want
      to go through that.

1262
00:55:47,978 --> 00:55:50,612
  -So, that's why you've been
   running around in secret?

1263
00:55:50,648 --> 00:55:53,982
      -That and I'm trying
  something new like you said.

1264
00:55:54,018 --> 00:55:57,586
I just don't want to disappoint
    you or myself anymore.

1265
00:55:57,621 --> 00:55:58,721
           You know?

1266
00:55:58,756 --> 00:56:01,924
    -That means a lot, dad.
But I am still your daughter.

1267
00:56:01,959 --> 00:56:05,194
   I mean, you can't block me
        out completely.

1268
00:56:05,229 --> 00:56:07,196
     We were always honest
  with each other, all right?

1269
00:56:07,231 --> 00:56:09,331
   Even, even the boyfriends
       you didn't like,

1270
00:56:09,367 --> 00:56:11,100
   I still let you meet them.

1271
00:56:11,135 --> 00:56:12,301
            [laughs]

1272
00:56:12,336 --> 00:56:14,136
             -yeah.

1273
00:56:14,171 --> 00:56:15,704
            [sighs]

1274
00:56:15,740 --> 00:56:17,840
            so um...

1275
00:56:17,875 --> 00:56:19,608
        [clears throat]

1276
00:56:19,643 --> 00:56:22,811
about the woman that I'm seeing,
            she's...

1277
00:56:22,847 --> 00:56:25,481
     -Dad. No, no pressure.

1278
00:56:25,516 --> 00:56:27,983
     You know, honestly you
       coming here today

1279
00:56:28,018 --> 00:56:29,952
and just opening out about
 why you've been so secretive,

1280
00:56:29,987 --> 00:56:35,391
          it's... It's
      refreshing honestly.

1281
00:56:35,426 --> 00:56:36,959
        You know I never
         told you this

1282
00:56:36,994 --> 00:56:38,527
      but I... I actually
        signed up, mom

1283
00:56:38,562 --> 00:56:39,995
    on that dating site too

1284
00:56:40,030 --> 00:56:42,998
     and she's been just as
      tight-lipped as you.

1285
00:56:43,033 --> 00:56:46,668
  And now it all makes sense.

1286
00:56:46,704 --> 00:56:48,370
           -It does?

1287
00:56:48,406 --> 00:56:49,438
             -Yeah.

1288
00:56:50,408 --> 00:56:52,741
 When you and mom got divorced
          I was hurt.

1289
00:56:52,777 --> 00:56:56,311
   I was... I was devastated.

1290
00:56:56,347 --> 00:57:02,084
 And I blamed you, blamed her,
blamed myself.

1291
00:57:02,119 --> 00:57:05,421
    And I prayed every night
   that you two would somehow

1292
00:57:05,456 --> 00:57:08,757
   find your way back to each
          other again.

1293
00:57:08,793 --> 00:57:11,226
  And when that didn't happen

1294
00:57:11,262 --> 00:57:14,730
  I prayed that you'd at least
     both find love again.

1295
00:57:16,934 --> 00:57:21,203
 I think I just, I think I just
       need to back off.

1296
00:57:21,238 --> 00:57:24,907
So, when you are ready to share
  this mystery woman with me

1297
00:57:24,942 --> 00:57:27,342
      then I will be here.

1298
00:57:27,378 --> 00:57:29,845
Until then if she is as special
      as you say she is,

1299
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,048
 then she's the one you should
be sharing that with.

1300
00:57:35,786 --> 00:57:36,819
          -[chuckles]

1301
00:57:38,055 --> 00:57:39,488
            come on.

1302
00:57:43,761 --> 00:57:48,096
   -Okay. Just keep it short
          and simple.

1303
00:57:48,132 --> 00:57:51,300
  Just tell her how you feel?

1304
00:57:51,335 --> 00:57:53,035
            [sighs]

1305
00:57:53,070 --> 00:57:55,037
    <i> [dramatic dance music]</i>
              <i> ♪</i>

1306
00:57:55,072 --> 00:57:59,741
               ♪

1307
00:57:59,777 --> 00:58:00,742
              -oh!

1308
00:58:00,778 --> 00:58:03,345
            [laughs]

1309
00:58:03,647 --> 00:58:04,980
       -you got the beat.

1310
00:58:05,015 --> 00:58:06,281
        -Really brenda?

1311
00:58:13,324 --> 00:58:14,189
         -I apologize.

1312
00:58:14,225 --> 00:58:17,059
      -No. There's nothing
       to apologize for.

1313
00:58:21,465 --> 00:58:22,464
             -Jack.

1314
00:58:24,101 --> 00:58:25,734
       What is the matter
           with you?

1315
00:58:25,769 --> 00:58:27,336
Are you seriously mad
          right now?

1316
00:58:27,371 --> 00:58:29,738
  -Look. Maybe I overreacted.

1317
00:58:29,773 --> 00:58:31,273
  I just, it just looked like-

1318
00:58:31,308 --> 00:58:33,075
       -looked like what?
          I'm at work.

1319
00:58:33,110 --> 00:58:35,177
    -Well, I thought I was
    interrupting something.

1320
00:58:35,212 --> 00:58:36,979
    -There's nothing for you
         to interrupt.

1321
00:58:37,014 --> 00:58:39,348
      I... You know what?

1322
00:58:39,383 --> 00:58:42,284
 I don't want to defend myself
         over nothing.

1323
00:58:42,319 --> 00:58:43,252
     -What does that mean?

1324
00:58:43,287 --> 00:58:44,520
 -It means that you're parading
          around here

1325
00:58:44,555 --> 00:58:45,554
   like I owe you something.

1326
00:58:45,589 --> 00:58:47,656
-What are you talking about?
       I never said that.

1327
00:58:47,691 --> 00:58:50,926
   -You don't have to say it.
      Your actions say it.

1328
00:58:50,961 --> 00:58:53,929
      Jack, our long walks
      and cooking together

1329
00:58:53,964 --> 00:58:55,197
       and all the stuff
        we used to do,

1330
00:58:55,232 --> 00:58:58,967
      it's been fun, but
     we know this routine.

1331
00:58:59,003 --> 00:59:00,435
   What are we really doing?

1332
00:59:00,738 --> 00:59:04,039
     -I don't know, brenda.
         Maybe dating.

1333
00:59:04,074 --> 00:59:05,807
   Maybe trying to rediscover
          what we had.

1334
00:59:05,843 --> 00:59:07,309
 -It's hard for me to casually
         date someone

1335
00:59:07,344 --> 00:59:08,710
        it took me years
to get over.

1336
00:59:08,746 --> 00:59:11,046
   And rediscovering? We had
     20 years to do that.

1337
00:59:11,081 --> 00:59:13,215
 The only reason we're together
      now is by accident.

1338
00:59:13,250 --> 00:59:15,284
-Are you saying this whole thing
        is an accident?

1339
00:59:15,319 --> 00:59:16,818
     -No. I didn't mean it
      to sound like that.

1340
00:59:16,854 --> 00:59:19,154
    That's not what I meant.
          I just, I...

1341
00:59:21,692 --> 00:59:24,660
     Maybe it's best that
     we just both move on.

1342
00:59:30,067 --> 00:59:33,168
         -Gotcha. Yeah.

1343
00:59:33,203 --> 00:59:35,337
    I wish the best for you.

1344
00:59:36,206 --> 00:59:40,776
        [phone buzzing]

1345
00:59:45,449 --> 00:59:46,615
         -I messed up.

1346
00:59:46,650 --> 00:59:49,918
      But since tomorrow's
our anniversary

1347
00:59:49,954 --> 00:59:53,121
  I went ahead and I booked us
     a room for the night.

1348
00:59:53,157 --> 00:59:54,256
        It's last minute

1349
00:59:54,291 --> 00:59:57,159
but apparently it's one of those
    couple getaway retreats.

1350
00:59:57,194 --> 00:59:59,328
   Kam already agreed to take
    all my late appointments

1351
00:59:59,363 --> 01:00:01,396
   so I should be done early.

1352
01:00:03,667 --> 01:00:04,967
          You hate it.

1353
01:00:05,002 --> 01:00:06,168
           -[laughs]

1354
01:00:06,203 --> 01:00:11,940
  no. I don't hate it, alicia.
            I um...

1355
01:00:11,976 --> 01:00:14,509
     I'm just losing faith.

1356
01:00:14,545 --> 01:00:22,684
 And uh, I want to believe you.
But, I guess, I guess we'll see.

1357
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:27,389
         -I get that.
And you will see.

1358
01:00:27,424 --> 01:00:30,359
  For now just find an excuse
      to call out of work

1359
01:00:30,394 --> 01:00:33,195
   and we can start packing.

1360
01:00:33,230 --> 01:00:35,664
This is going to be a good thing
         for us, babe.

1361
01:00:35,699 --> 01:00:37,699
        [phone ringing]

1362
01:00:37,735 --> 01:00:38,767
              -oh.

1363
01:00:41,438 --> 01:00:43,805
          -Answer it.

1364
01:00:43,841 --> 01:00:45,307
    -I won't be long, okay?

1365
01:00:46,210 --> 01:00:50,312
    -Hey mom. What, what?
          Slow down.

1366
01:00:54,718 --> 01:00:56,118
             What?

1367
01:00:58,255 --> 01:01:03,225
   I... I can um, I can try.
    I can try and make it.

1368
01:01:13,404 --> 01:01:14,403
       -Everything okay?

1369
01:01:14,438 --> 01:01:19,107
   -Um, no. Actually, my mom
      and her guy friend,

1370
01:01:19,143 --> 01:01:20,909
they called it off.

1371
01:01:23,414 --> 01:01:25,447
 -Go take care of your mother.

1372
01:01:25,482 --> 01:01:27,716
      -What? No, no babe.

1373
01:01:27,751 --> 01:01:29,551
   We just said this weekend
         is about us.

1374
01:01:29,586 --> 01:01:31,720
    -And it is. This weekend
        it's you and me.

1375
01:01:31,755 --> 01:01:34,723
 But we both know realistically
   you can't be fully with me

1376
01:01:34,758 --> 01:01:37,693
 if your mother's suffering so.

1377
01:01:37,728 --> 01:01:39,227
           It's okay.

1378
01:01:39,263 --> 01:01:43,198
  -Okay. Um, I won't be long,
          I promise.

1379
01:01:43,233 --> 01:01:45,434
For now maybe just start packing

1380
01:01:45,469 --> 01:01:48,370
 and I will give you a call as
  soon as I'm on my way back.

1381
01:01:48,405 --> 01:01:49,771
          I love you.

1382
01:01:57,281 --> 01:02:01,717
-Oh. Look at all those flavors.

1383
01:02:01,752 --> 01:02:02,984
    Do you know what you're
        going to have?

1384
01:02:03,020 --> 01:02:04,386
      -I'm good with cream
           and sugar.

1385
01:02:04,421 --> 01:02:06,221
      I mean you can keep
   all those lattes and fraps

1386
01:02:06,256 --> 01:02:07,889
        or whatever else
         you call them.

1387
01:02:07,925 --> 01:02:12,127
        -Hey. You okay?
     You seem a little off.

1388
01:02:12,162 --> 01:02:13,195
     -No, no, no. I'm fine.

1389
01:02:13,230 --> 01:02:16,765
   I'm just, I just got a lot
    on my mind, that's all.

1390
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,600
 -Well, hopefully I'm helping.

1391
01:02:23,140 --> 01:02:24,172
    -Relationships are such
          a headache.

1392
01:02:24,208 --> 01:02:26,775
Now, I remember why I stayed
      single for so long.

1393
01:02:26,810 --> 01:02:28,643
   -Well, it's been a minute
 since you've been in the game,

1394
01:02:28,679 --> 01:02:30,011
  but it hasn't changed much.

1395
01:02:30,047 --> 01:02:31,913
     -Well, it's your fault
          I'm dating.

1396
01:02:31,949 --> 01:02:33,014
   -That's why it's my treat.

1397
01:02:33,050 --> 01:02:34,082
            [laughs]

1398
01:02:36,820 --> 01:02:38,253
              dad.

1399
01:02:38,989 --> 01:02:41,957
       -Princess. Brenda.

1400
01:02:41,992 --> 01:02:45,527
     Um, what are you guys
          doing here?

1401
01:02:45,562 --> 01:02:47,829
     -Oh, this is awkward.

1402
01:02:47,865 --> 01:02:52,300
 I know it's been a while but
you two can still speak, right?

1403
01:02:52,336 --> 01:02:53,935
      -Hi jack. It's nice
          to see you.

1404
01:02:53,971 --> 01:02:55,971
-Um, listen, I uh...

1405
01:02:56,006 --> 01:02:58,673
          -Alicia. Hi.

1406
01:02:58,709 --> 01:03:02,010
 -So jada is the mystery woman?

1407
01:03:02,045 --> 01:03:04,112
         -I'm the what?

1408
01:03:08,886 --> 01:03:10,118
        -Mom, you okay?

1409
01:03:10,154 --> 01:03:11,286
          -I gotta go.
             -Mom?

1410
01:03:11,321 --> 01:03:12,754
    -Brenda, I can explain.

1411
01:03:14,725 --> 01:03:15,991
         -Explain what?

1412
01:03:17,694 --> 01:03:20,162
   I'm... I'm confused, dad.

1413
01:03:22,533 --> 01:03:27,869
     Dad? Are you serious?

1414
01:03:27,905 --> 01:03:29,671
    -I was going to tell you
            and I...

1415
01:03:29,706 --> 01:03:31,173
        -But you didn't.

1416
01:03:31,675 --> 01:03:33,341
            -[sighs]

1417
01:03:36,747 --> 01:03:40,081
    -jack, what is going on?

1418
01:03:40,117 --> 01:03:44,586
   -Um, jada look. I'm sorry.

1419
01:03:44,621 --> 01:03:48,490
   This, this was a mistake.
I'm so sorry.

1420
01:03:58,202 --> 01:03:59,100
            -[sighs]

1421
01:03:59,136 --> 01:04:01,203
      you should've seen
     the look on her face.

1422
01:04:01,238 --> 01:04:02,838
      She was devastated.

1423
01:04:02,873 --> 01:04:07,175
 And he was just standing there
         looking silly.

1424
01:04:07,211 --> 01:04:09,778
         -We don't have
       to force tomorrow.

1425
01:04:09,813 --> 01:04:10,946
      I know your mom's...

1426
01:04:10,981 --> 01:04:14,182
          -About that.

1427
01:04:14,585 --> 01:04:17,619
   Remember how you said that
you knew that I wouldn't be able

1428
01:04:17,654 --> 01:04:22,357
 to focus on us knowing that my
 mom's going through something?

1429
01:04:22,392 --> 01:04:23,058
            -Uh-huh.

1430
01:04:23,093 --> 01:04:27,696
 -Well, I kind of invited her.

1431
01:04:27,731 --> 01:04:29,898
            -Alicia.

1432
01:04:29,933 --> 01:04:33,501
Did you seriously invite your
 mom on our romantic getaway?

1433
01:04:34,438 --> 01:04:36,738
-Uh, it sounds bad when you say
     it out loud, but yes.

1434
01:04:36,773 --> 01:04:38,907
   She'll have her own room.

1435
01:04:38,942 --> 01:04:42,377
It's not like she'll be with us.

1436
01:04:42,412 --> 01:04:47,482
    Arnold, she was so sad.
     If you'd seen her...

1437
01:04:47,517 --> 01:04:49,451
          -Okay. Fine.

1438
01:04:49,486 --> 01:04:53,622
    I... I'll just tell her
     that she can't come.

1439
01:04:55,425 --> 01:04:56,625
-You don't have anything to say?

1440
01:04:56,660 --> 01:04:58,560
      -Actually, I don't.

1441
01:04:58,595 --> 01:05:00,795
    Nothing other than what
   I've already been saying.

1442
01:05:00,831 --> 01:05:04,833
    Is it cool that your mom
is joining us on our trip?

1443
01:05:04,868 --> 01:05:07,836
      Of course it's not.

1444
01:05:07,871 --> 01:05:12,240
  But last thing she needs is
 another man rejecting her so.

1445
01:05:12,276 --> 01:05:14,743
        [doorbell rings]

1446
01:05:14,778 --> 01:05:16,611
   -well, you should probably
           get that.

1447
01:05:16,647 --> 01:05:18,813
   We both know it's for you.

1448
01:05:26,056 --> 01:05:27,088
            -[sighs]

1449
01:05:31,161 --> 01:05:33,461
   -did I come at a bad time?

1450
01:05:33,497 --> 01:05:35,030
       -Can we please cut
    the point of small talk?

1451
01:05:35,065 --> 01:05:35,964
      You were seeing mom
        this whole time

1452
01:05:35,999 --> 01:05:38,533
       without telling me
    just to go back to jada.

1453
01:05:38,568 --> 01:05:39,768
            -No. No.

1454
01:05:39,803 --> 01:05:42,671
That's not what happened,
            at all.

1455
01:05:42,706 --> 01:05:45,140
      Your mother actually
          rejected me.

1456
01:05:45,175 --> 01:05:48,143
   Jada just happened to call
    at the right time and...

1457
01:05:48,178 --> 01:05:50,845
           [sighs]
       it was a mistake.

1458
01:05:50,881 --> 01:05:53,281
   You know I saw your mother
      with a guy from work

1459
01:05:53,317 --> 01:05:54,716
    and you know, after she
       turned me down...

1460
01:05:54,751 --> 01:05:56,451
        -Guy from work.
       Professor staples?

1461
01:05:56,486 --> 01:05:59,321
   I don't know what you saw
      or thought you saw.

1462
01:05:59,356 --> 01:06:01,456
But I can promise you right now
mom is not thinking about him.

1463
01:06:01,491 --> 01:06:02,891
Regardless, how...

1464
01:06:02,926 --> 01:06:05,527
   How do you two run around
        behind my back?

1465
01:06:05,562 --> 01:06:07,128
     -Look, we just decided
      to keep it a secret

1466
01:06:07,164 --> 01:06:10,231
     at least until we knew
      what we were doing.

1467
01:06:10,267 --> 01:06:13,802
 And then when you and I met up
      and you told me how

1468
01:06:13,837 --> 01:06:16,538
   the divorce affected you I
  didn't know how to tell you.

1469
01:06:16,573 --> 01:06:18,373
     Neither one of us did.

1470
01:06:18,408 --> 01:06:22,577
   Princess, the last thing
 we wanted to do was hurt you.

1471
01:06:22,612 --> 01:06:25,013
   As bad as I feel you have
        to understand,

1472
01:06:25,048 --> 01:06:27,515
       your mother and I,
we're grown.

1473
01:06:27,551 --> 01:06:29,818
       Yeah. We're going
       to make mistakes.

1474
01:06:29,853 --> 01:06:31,319
       But that's for us
        to figure out.

1475
01:06:31,355 --> 01:06:32,287
   Just like I have no right

1476
01:06:32,322 --> 01:06:34,889
      being all up in you
     and arnold's business.

1477
01:06:34,925 --> 01:06:38,360
 And I'm sorry you got involved
         in this mess.

1478
01:06:38,395 --> 01:06:41,162
   The truth is I still love
    your mother very much.

1479
01:06:41,198 --> 01:06:43,865
  As crazy as it might sound,
  losing her this time around

1480
01:06:43,900 --> 01:06:46,901
 just made me realize how much
I've been missing her all along.

1481
01:06:48,605 --> 01:06:50,739
    As usual my overbearing
ways backfired

1482
01:06:50,774 --> 01:06:54,275
    and, I guess, I came on
  too strong for your mother.

1483
01:06:54,311 --> 01:06:57,412
  You know, leave it up to me
     to get in my own way.

1484
01:06:57,447 --> 01:06:58,680
Always trying to control things

1485
01:06:58,715 --> 01:07:01,950
    that I should just leave
        to the universe.

1486
01:07:01,985 --> 01:07:09,190
 -You have to know when to lead
   and... And when to follow.

1487
01:07:09,226 --> 01:07:14,729
  -Yeah. I guess you're right.

1488
01:07:14,765 --> 01:07:21,870
 -Dad. Please don't reach out
 to mom if you're not serious.

1489
01:07:21,905 --> 01:07:25,774
   I gotta go finish packing.
   You can let yourself out.

1490
01:07:29,980 --> 01:07:32,781
               ♪

1491
01:07:32,816 --> 01:07:35,283
-once again we're so honored
     to be hosting you all.

1492
01:07:35,318 --> 01:07:38,486
      This resort is truly
         about lovers.

1493
01:07:38,522 --> 01:07:39,421
    Or those simply looking

1494
01:07:39,456 --> 01:07:40,889
  to disconnect from the world
          for a while,

1495
01:07:40,924 --> 01:07:43,525
      to give that system
          a recharge.

1496
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:44,259
           [giggles]

1497
01:07:44,294 --> 01:07:46,461
    so, who's ready to take
            a look?

1498
01:07:48,432 --> 01:07:50,498
-Who brought the stuffed animals
         to the party?

1499
01:07:50,534 --> 01:07:52,600
            [laughs]

1500
01:07:53,537 --> 01:07:55,270
       okay, let's go in.

1501
01:07:57,174 --> 01:08:00,675
        Here you two go.
        So nice, right?

1502
01:08:00,710 --> 01:08:02,043
-Wow. It's beautiful.

1503
01:08:02,079 --> 01:08:04,112
 -I agree. Please look around.

1504
01:08:05,916 --> 01:08:07,382
 -I can take you to your room.

1505
01:08:07,417 --> 01:08:08,450
             -Yeah.

1506
01:08:08,485 --> 01:08:10,251
    -Oh, don't forget about
   the banquet dinner tonight

1507
01:08:10,287 --> 01:08:11,352
       in the guest hall.

1508
01:08:11,388 --> 01:08:14,389
It will be free food and music.
    You'll love the décor.

1509
01:08:14,424 --> 01:08:16,091
         -Sounds good.
          Thank you.

1510
01:08:16,126 --> 01:08:17,358
           -This way.

1511
01:08:22,799 --> 01:08:24,299
            -[sighs]

1512
01:08:26,636 --> 01:08:28,403
-okay. I don't want to do this.

1513
01:08:30,307 --> 01:08:31,272
        -You were right.

1514
01:08:31,308 --> 01:08:35,009
    Spending our anniversary
    with my mom is not cool.

1515
01:08:35,045 --> 01:08:36,344
Regardless of the circumstances

1516
01:08:36,379 --> 01:08:37,679
    I shouldn't have brought
           her here.

1517
01:08:37,714 --> 01:08:39,080
-Alicia, it's bigger than that.

1518
01:08:39,116 --> 01:08:40,248
            -I know.

1519
01:08:40,283 --> 01:08:41,583
            -Do you?

1520
01:08:41,618 --> 01:08:42,884
       Because every time
          you say that

1521
01:08:42,919 --> 01:08:46,087
    your actions don't seem
           to match.

1522
01:08:46,123 --> 01:08:48,857
 -I know I keep doing the same
  thing over and over again.

1523
01:08:48,892 --> 01:08:50,525
    It's like I can't stop.

1524
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:51,426
         And I get it,

1525
01:08:51,461 --> 01:08:53,595
      I'm unintentionally
       pushing you away.

1526
01:08:53,630 --> 01:08:54,929
         -It's working.

1527
01:08:56,900 --> 01:08:58,967
       -You asked me why
I've been obsessed

1528
01:08:59,002 --> 01:09:04,772
   with my parents' happiness
     and it finally hit me.

1529
01:09:04,808 --> 01:09:06,441
          I'm scared.

1530
01:09:06,476 --> 01:09:07,909
        -Scared of what?

1531
01:09:10,247 --> 01:09:12,213
      -Living my own life.

1532
01:09:12,249 --> 01:09:13,348
    After I spoke to my dad

1533
01:09:13,383 --> 01:09:17,318
I realized that I've been trying
     to control everything.

1534
01:09:17,354 --> 01:09:19,287
        Even the things
     that I can't control.

1535
01:09:19,322 --> 01:09:23,224
And trying to solve their issues
    because I figured well,

1536
01:09:23,260 --> 01:09:25,827
if I can find a way to keep them
   happy then maybe our life

1537
01:09:25,862 --> 01:09:31,766
   could have that fairy tale
   ending that theirs didn't.

1538
01:09:31,801 --> 01:09:35,270
And now I'm spiraling
  and I'm turning our marriage

1539
01:09:35,305 --> 01:09:38,139
   into this self-fulfilling
           prophecy

1540
01:09:38,175 --> 01:09:44,512
  that could end in us one day
      becoming strangers.

1541
01:09:44,548 --> 01:09:47,682
     And I can't lose you.

1542
01:09:47,717 --> 01:09:51,352
            I can't.

1543
01:09:51,388 --> 01:09:53,354
     -This is the closest
    that I have felt to you

1544
01:09:53,390 --> 01:09:57,158
 in I don't even know how long.

1545
01:09:57,194 --> 01:10:01,496
-I miss us. I miss our intimacy.

1546
01:10:01,531 --> 01:10:05,166
        There's so much
      that I want for us.

1547
01:10:05,202 --> 01:10:08,803
   -Like growing our family?

1548
01:10:08,838 --> 01:10:12,807
I know. You've dropped your fair
     share of subtle hints.

1549
01:10:12,842 --> 01:10:14,442
-I see.

1550
01:10:14,477 --> 01:10:15,310
           [chuckles]

1551
01:10:16,913 --> 01:10:20,048
       -I want kids too.

1552
01:10:20,083 --> 01:10:23,952
I just, I have these flashbacks
   of when my parents split,

1553
01:10:23,987 --> 01:10:28,856
 and it was just like watching
      a mountain crumble.

1554
01:10:28,892 --> 01:10:33,194
     And I don't want that
        for our child.

1555
01:10:33,230 --> 01:10:34,862
       What if that's us?

1556
01:10:34,898 --> 01:10:40,201
       -What if it's not?
Where you see doubt, I see hope.

1557
01:10:40,237 --> 01:10:41,035
     I've never doubted us

1558
01:10:41,071 --> 01:10:43,037
     because I see the way
          that my dad

1559
01:10:43,073 --> 01:10:46,808
     still looks at my mom
         to this day.

1560
01:10:46,843 --> 01:10:50,878
   Yet I realize that that's
their story.

1561
01:10:50,914 --> 01:10:54,749
       We are the authors
       of our own story.

1562
01:10:54,784 --> 01:11:00,521
 And I look forward to writing
each and every chapter with you.

1563
01:11:00,557 --> 01:11:07,328
   All I ask is in our book,
  we play the main characters.

1564
01:11:07,364 --> 01:11:09,130
         Okay, alicia?

1565
01:11:13,136 --> 01:11:19,140
       -I need my wife.
     For me. For me, babe.

1566
01:11:32,455 --> 01:11:34,222
       [knocking at door]

1567
01:11:41,431 --> 01:11:42,797
              -hi.

1568
01:11:42,832 --> 01:11:45,466
    -Hi. Wow, this is nice.

1569
01:11:45,502 --> 01:11:49,370
     -It's exactly the same
         as your room.

1570
01:11:49,406 --> 01:11:51,706
I just, I don't know if this was
       such a good idea.

1571
01:11:51,741 --> 01:11:54,475
     -Are you kidding me?
This was a terrible idea.

1572
01:11:54,511 --> 01:11:55,777
            [laughs]
    -it was a terrible idea.

1573
01:11:55,812 --> 01:11:57,812
            -So bad.

1574
01:11:57,847 --> 01:12:00,048
-I'm so sorry I didn't tell you
   about me and your father.

1575
01:12:00,083 --> 01:12:01,916
-Mom. You've apologized enough.

1576
01:12:01,951 --> 01:12:03,051
        Look, I get it.

1577
01:12:03,086 --> 01:12:06,087
You two are grown and you didn't
    want me to get involved.

1578
01:12:06,122 --> 01:12:08,323
     Which you did anyway.
       But that's fine.

1579
01:12:08,358 --> 01:12:09,624
 -I was trying to protect you.

1580
01:12:09,659 --> 01:12:10,892
   -I didn't need protection.

1581
01:12:10,927 --> 01:12:11,726
             -Yeah.

1582
01:12:13,129 --> 01:12:16,331
     I understand that more
         than you know.

1583
01:12:16,366 --> 01:12:18,766
I didn't even realize
         I still cared

1584
01:12:18,802 --> 01:12:21,936
        until I saw him
     with that other woman.

1585
01:12:21,971 --> 01:12:23,071
   -It didn't feel good, huh?

1586
01:12:23,106 --> 01:12:26,240
       -Nope. Not at all.

1587
01:12:26,276 --> 01:12:31,979
     -Well, maybe there's
     still something there

1588
01:12:32,015 --> 01:12:33,748
    for you two to work out.

1589
01:12:33,783 --> 01:12:37,618
  -Hmm. Been there done that.

1590
01:12:37,654 --> 01:12:41,255
 -You know, not that you care,
      but I spoke to dad

1591
01:12:41,291 --> 01:12:46,160
and he told me that jada didn't
     mean anything to him.

1592
01:12:46,196 --> 01:12:51,265
 That he was hurt and confused
    when you rejected him.

1593
01:12:51,301 --> 01:12:54,335
  -No, but I didn't reject...

1594
01:12:54,371 --> 01:12:57,438
Wait, he said that?

1595
01:12:57,474 --> 01:12:59,674
   -Nope. Not going to do it.
         Not this time.

1596
01:12:59,709 --> 01:13:03,211
       I am staying out.
   I'm not getting involved.

1597
01:13:03,246 --> 01:13:05,279
      -Learned my lesson.

1598
01:13:05,315 --> 01:13:07,215
     -Anyway, what are you
       wearing tonight?

1599
01:13:07,250 --> 01:13:10,551
    -I'm wearing my pajamas.
    And I have a good book.

1600
01:13:10,587 --> 01:13:11,986
        -No. No, no, no.

1601
01:13:12,021 --> 01:13:13,788
No, that's not what's happening.

1602
01:13:13,823 --> 01:13:15,022
   You're coming downstairs.

1603
01:13:15,058 --> 01:13:17,992
  You're going to have dinner
with us and there'll be dancing.

1604
01:13:18,027 --> 01:13:19,827
          Enjoy that.

1605
01:13:19,863 --> 01:13:20,461
            -Maybe.

1606
01:13:20,497 --> 01:13:21,562
-Maybe. Sounds like a yes.

1607
01:13:21,598 --> 01:13:23,030
     -No, no. It's a maybe.

1608
01:13:23,066 --> 01:13:24,732
     -Wear your best dress.
    I'll see you downstairs.

1609
01:13:24,768 --> 01:13:26,033
           Love you!

1610
01:13:26,069 --> 01:13:27,502
           -[laughs]

1611
01:13:31,508 --> 01:13:34,308
         <i> [dance music]</i>
               <i> ♪</i>

1612
01:13:34,344 --> 01:13:37,745
    -come on, more dancing.
   Let's build up that floor.

1613
01:13:37,781 --> 01:13:39,447
    <i> ♪ someone to lean on ♪</i>

1614
01:13:39,482 --> 01:13:40,848
    <i> ♪ you can think of me ♪</i>

1615
01:13:40,884 --> 01:13:43,951
  <i> ♪ think of me all the time</i>
  <i> think of me all the time ♪</i>

1616
01:13:43,987 --> 01:13:45,953
 -should I ask her if she wants
           to dance?

1617
01:13:45,989 --> 01:13:49,490
-No. She'll probably think
you're just taking pity on her.

1618
01:13:49,526 --> 01:13:51,793
        -Maybe I'll go.
            -Okay.

1619
01:13:51,828 --> 01:13:52,927
 -Actually, why would I do that

1620
01:13:52,962 --> 01:13:57,665
 when I have this fine sexy man
     right in front of me?

1621
01:13:57,700 --> 01:13:58,433
          -Thank you.

1622
01:13:58,468 --> 01:13:59,467
           -[laughs]

1623
01:14:00,870 --> 01:14:04,105
               ♪

1624
01:14:04,140 --> 01:14:06,774
   -it looks like she's still
        got it, though.

1625
01:14:06,810 --> 01:14:10,111
  -Yeah, but she won't give it
        away to anyone.

1626
01:14:10,146 --> 01:14:15,850
               ♪

1627
01:14:15,885 --> 01:14:18,853
 -are you waiting for someone?

1628
01:14:18,888 --> 01:14:20,288
          -Excuse me?

1629
01:14:20,323 --> 01:14:23,524
       -Alicia, come on.
I know you too well.

1630
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:26,861
 You told your dad we'd be here
   hoping that he'd show up.

1631
01:14:26,896 --> 01:14:30,031
-Maybe. But I also told him not
          to show up

1632
01:14:30,066 --> 01:14:32,099
     if he wasn't serious.

1633
01:14:33,736 --> 01:14:36,237
       I guess he wasn't.

1634
01:14:36,272 --> 01:14:38,906
               <i> ♪</i>

1635
01:14:38,942 --> 01:14:39,974
           -let's go.

1636
01:14:42,879 --> 01:14:46,180
-Okay, I know you're not tired.
    The night is too young.

1637
01:14:46,216 --> 01:14:47,982
 -Yes, which is why you should
         be out there.

1638
01:14:48,017 --> 01:14:49,650
       -No. Maybe later.

1639
01:14:49,686 --> 01:14:50,985
           -Come on.

1640
01:14:51,020 --> 01:14:52,086
      -Please stop trying
        to cheer me up.

1641
01:14:52,121 --> 01:14:53,321
    It's way too depressing.

1642
01:14:53,356 --> 01:14:54,522
-Come on.

1643
01:14:54,557 --> 01:14:56,491
  You've got to show me some
of those legendary dance moves.

1644
01:14:56,526 --> 01:14:58,226
            -[sighs]

1645
01:14:58,261 --> 01:14:59,293
             -yes.

1646
01:15:00,363 --> 01:15:00,962
           All right.

1647
01:15:00,997 --> 01:15:03,764
          Yes, do it.
           Have fun.

1648
01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:18,613
               <i> ♪</i>

1649
01:15:18,648 --> 01:15:24,552
   <i> ♪ sometimes loving is so</i>
       <i> so hard to do. ♪</i>

1650
01:15:24,587 --> 01:15:28,055
              <i> ♪ </i>

1651
01:15:28,091 --> 01:15:32,026
      <i> ♪ there are times</i>
     <i> we hurt each other ♪</i>

1652
01:15:32,061 --> 01:15:35,229
     <i> ♪ just trying to make</i>
         <i> it through ♪</i>

1653
01:15:35,265 --> 01:15:38,900
              <i> ♪ </i>

1654
01:15:38,935 --> 01:15:42,069
<i>♪ we've come too far together ♪</i>

1655
01:15:42,105 --> 01:15:43,304
 <i> ["just the two of us" plays]</i>
               ♪

1656
01:15:43,339 --> 01:15:44,605
             -whoa.
          -Whoa, yeah.

1657
01:15:44,641 --> 01:15:46,741
               ♪

1658
01:15:46,776 --> 01:15:48,376
    -may I have this dance?

1659
01:15:48,411 --> 01:15:53,080
               ♪

1660
01:15:53,116 --> 01:15:56,450
   -what are you doing here?

1661
01:15:56,486 --> 01:15:57,585
       -Isn't it obvious?

1662
01:15:57,620 --> 01:15:59,487
     <i> ♪ I see the crystal </i>
       <i> raindrops fall ♪</i>

1663
01:15:59,522 --> 01:16:01,122
    -this is me wanting back
         the best thing

1664
01:16:01,157 --> 01:16:02,723
      that's ever happened
             to me.

1665
01:16:02,759 --> 01:16:05,593
    ♪<i> is when the sun comes</i>
<i> shining through</i> ♪

1666
01:16:05,628 --> 01:16:07,295
       hey, look 'em up.

1667
01:16:07,330 --> 01:16:09,897
    ♪<i> to make those rainbows</i>
         <i> in my mind</i> ♪

1668
01:16:09,933 --> 01:16:12,633
       ♪<i> when I think of</i>
        <i> you sometime</i> ♪

1669
01:16:12,669 --> 01:16:14,502
         -what happens
     when the music stops?

1670
01:16:14,537 --> 01:16:16,304
      -Who says it has to?

1671
01:16:16,339 --> 01:16:18,773
     ♪<i> just the two of us</i> ♪

1672
01:16:18,808 --> 01:16:21,475
  ♪<i> we can make it if we try</i> ♪

1673
01:16:21,511 --> 01:16:23,778
   -hey, can we go somewhere
           and talk?

1674
01:16:23,813 --> 01:16:26,080
     ♪<i> just the two of us</i>
     <i> just the two of us</i> ♪

1675
01:16:26,115 --> 01:16:26,847
             -yeah.

1676
01:16:26,883 --> 01:16:29,250
♪<i> just the two of us</i> ♪

1677
01:16:29,285 --> 01:16:30,918
♪<i> building castles in the sky</i> ♪

1678
01:16:30,954 --> 01:16:32,286
         -[jack sighs]

1679
01:16:33,623 --> 01:16:38,025
   you uh, look as beautiful
          as you did

1680
01:16:38,061 --> 01:16:41,162
  the night I proposed to you.

1681
01:16:41,197 --> 01:16:43,197
     -Like you'd remember.

1682
01:16:43,232 --> 01:16:45,700
     -Two piece black suit.
     Matching black pumps.

1683
01:16:45,735 --> 01:16:47,802
 Gold charm necklace that your
parents gave you for graduation.

1684
01:16:47,837 --> 01:16:49,036
             -Okay.

1685
01:16:49,072 --> 01:16:52,840
I don't like it when you make me
  blush when I don't want to.

1686
01:16:52,875 --> 01:16:54,208
   -Is that such a bad thing?

1687
01:16:54,243 --> 01:16:56,277
  -If you can't keep it going.

1688
01:16:58,748 --> 01:17:01,215
-That's fair.

1689
01:17:01,250 --> 01:17:03,517
 So look, first of all I wanted
          to apologize

1690
01:17:03,553 --> 01:17:05,953
       for what happened
      at the coffee shop.

1691
01:17:05,989 --> 01:17:10,324
  It wasn't what you thought,
             okay?

1692
01:17:10,360 --> 01:17:12,493
   I know it's cliché to say
      that you don't know

1693
01:17:12,528 --> 01:17:16,197
what you've got until it's gone,
         but it's true.

1694
01:17:16,232 --> 01:17:17,865
    You said we reconnected
          by accident

1695
01:17:17,900 --> 01:17:19,867
   and you're right, we did.

1696
01:17:19,902 --> 01:17:22,536
     But that doesn't make
  what I feel any less valid.

1697
01:17:22,572 --> 01:17:23,638
      I want to be clear,

1698
01:17:23,673 --> 01:17:27,008
I didn't come here to romance
     you for the weekend.

1699
01:17:28,645 --> 01:17:30,478
  I want this for a lifetime.

1700
01:17:31,981 --> 01:17:33,014
           -[exhales]

1701
01:17:34,751 --> 01:17:37,785
 well, what would be different
       this time around?

1702
01:17:37,820 --> 01:17:39,787
     -I mean the, the time
   that we've spent together

1703
01:17:39,822 --> 01:17:41,956
      is showing how much
         we've grown.

1704
01:17:41,991 --> 01:17:43,190
        Think about it.

1705
01:17:43,226 --> 01:17:47,194
You weren't always checking in
at work and I even let you pay.

1706
01:17:47,230 --> 01:17:48,663
          Well, once.

1707
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:54,035
   -You know brenda, I never
     wanted that divorce.

1708
01:17:54,070 --> 01:17:56,437
 In my mind it was always going
to work itself out

1709
01:17:56,472 --> 01:17:58,939
    but it took me this time
       around to realize

1710
01:17:58,975 --> 01:18:03,210
 that it can't work itself out
     if you stop working.

1711
01:18:04,681 --> 01:18:07,081
    -You're absolutely right
          about that.

1712
01:18:07,116 --> 01:18:08,549
      -Well, the beauty is
          we have now.

1713
01:18:08,584 --> 01:18:10,718
             -Yeah.

1714
01:18:10,753 --> 01:18:15,122
-Most people don't get a second
  chance at their first love.

1715
01:18:15,158 --> 01:18:21,595
          And you were
        and are my only.

1716
01:18:22,331 --> 01:18:26,567
    Look, I'll be the first
    to admit I can be a lot.

1717
01:18:26,602 --> 01:18:29,470
    But you gotta understand
that you pulling away,

1718
01:18:29,505 --> 01:18:30,438
     it didn't help either.

1719
01:18:30,473 --> 01:18:33,407
     -I do understand that.

1720
01:18:33,443 --> 01:18:36,644
     I should've told you
   how I felt and I'm sorry.

1721
01:18:36,679 --> 01:18:39,246
-It's, you know, most important
    thing is we're here now

1722
01:18:39,282 --> 01:18:40,815
       and we're talking.

1723
01:18:40,850 --> 01:18:43,517
      And I mean I'm ready
          to tell you

1724
01:18:43,553 --> 01:18:45,619
      and the whole world
     how I feel about you.

1725
01:18:45,655 --> 01:18:47,321
           -[laughs]
            please.

1726
01:18:47,356 --> 01:18:48,522
  -What? You don't believe me?

1727
01:18:48,558 --> 01:18:49,857
       -The whole world.

1728
01:18:49,892 --> 01:18:52,560
      -All right. Come on.
           Come here.

1729
01:18:53,663 --> 01:19:02,970
♪

1730
01:19:03,005 --> 01:19:04,004
         [mic feedback]

1731
01:19:05,308 --> 01:19:07,007
     good evening everyone.

1732
01:19:07,043 --> 01:19:08,843
      Sorry to interrupt.

1733
01:19:08,878 --> 01:19:12,480
       I hope you're all
       enjoying this, uh,

1734
01:19:12,515 --> 01:19:17,051
   this, this, this beautiful
      evening for lovers.

1735
01:19:17,086 --> 01:19:23,290
  But there's someone special
here tonight that's on my mind.

1736
01:19:23,326 --> 01:19:28,062
   I'm sorry, can we get like
     a light or something?

1737
01:19:28,097 --> 01:19:29,263
           Thank you.

1738
01:19:30,266 --> 01:19:31,932
      Brenda anne roberts.

1739
01:19:33,736 --> 01:19:35,503
      The love of my life.

1740
01:19:36,672 --> 01:19:41,242
     Recently our daughter,
           wave baby.

1741
01:19:41,277 --> 01:19:46,814
       She reconnected us
after years of separation.

1742
01:19:46,849 --> 01:19:52,019
    The thing I learned in
    that time apart is that

1743
01:19:52,054 --> 01:19:55,422
       true love always
      finds its way home.

1744
01:19:55,458 --> 01:20:01,495
      You know brenda, in
rediscovering us I found myself.

1745
01:20:01,531 --> 01:20:04,598
   Marrying you was the best
     decision I ever made.

1746
01:20:04,634 --> 01:20:06,367
   Somehow, I allowed myself
          to lose you

1747
01:20:06,402 --> 01:20:09,737
   was the worst error ever.

1748
01:20:09,772 --> 01:20:14,608
 You were growing and I didn't
    know how to handle it.

1749
01:20:14,644 --> 01:20:17,344
       But I'm learning.

1750
01:20:17,380 --> 01:20:21,382
     And I uh, excuse me...

1751
01:20:24,453 --> 01:20:28,756
       I will never dim
your light again.

1752
01:20:29,625 --> 01:20:32,626
 In fact, I promise to support
       and encourage you

1753
01:20:32,662 --> 01:20:37,198
    every step along the way
      as we grow together.

1754
01:20:37,233 --> 01:20:41,068
  You asked me what I wanted
 the night that we reconnected

1755
01:20:41,103 --> 01:20:44,572
       on our first date.

1756
01:20:44,607 --> 01:20:47,708
       I just want to be
        what you need.

1757
01:20:47,743 --> 01:20:52,379
      You know? A partner
         in this work.

1758
01:20:52,415 --> 01:20:54,982
   Companion on this journey.

1759
01:20:55,017 --> 01:20:59,587
      I want to be the man
      that you always felt

1760
01:20:59,622 --> 01:21:01,789
   that I had to protect you
            to be.

1761
01:21:04,961 --> 01:21:06,126
           [exhales]

1762
01:21:08,698 --> 01:21:10,197
um...

1763
01:21:10,533 --> 01:21:12,266
            [gasps]

1764
01:21:16,839 --> 01:21:19,874
      -will you marry me,
      mrs. Roberts, again?

1765
01:21:25,715 --> 01:21:28,515
       -Of course I will.

1766
01:21:28,551 --> 01:21:30,351
    [cheering and applause]

1767
01:21:30,386 --> 01:21:41,295
               ♪

1768
01:21:44,333 --> 01:21:47,268
♪<i> I'm coming home, coming home,</i>
        <i> coming home</i> ♪

1769
01:21:47,303 --> 01:21:49,703
 <i> alicia: Okay, wait one moment.</i>

1770
01:21:49,739 --> 01:21:51,705
  <i> We all love a happy ending</i>
           <i> and all,</i>

1771
01:21:51,741 --> 01:21:54,108
  <i> but didn't you just hear me</i>
     <i> agree with my husband</i>

1772
01:21:54,143 --> 01:21:58,679
<i>that we will be playing the main</i>
<i> characters in our own story.</i>

1773
01:21:58,714 --> 01:22:01,015
    [cheering and applause]

1774
01:22:01,050 --> 01:22:03,984
      <i> so, yes, my parents</i>
        <i> are remarried.</i>

1775
01:22:04,020 --> 01:22:06,387
      <i> My dad gave my mom</i>
        <i> space to grow.</i>

1776
01:22:06,422 --> 01:22:10,024
      <i> Which allowed her</i>
  <i> to fully receive his love.</i>

1777
01:22:10,059 --> 01:22:14,461
 <i> She made sure to make him more</i>
 <i> of a priority and work less.</i>

1778
01:22:14,497 --> 01:22:19,967
<i>And thankfully for us, they are</i>
<i>no longer in my hair, and so...</i>

1779
01:22:22,271 --> 01:22:26,740
<i>We finally made time for us and</i>
<i>welcomed our beautiful baby girl</i>

1780
01:22:26,776 --> 01:22:30,144
      <i> elise leanne owens</i>
        <i> to the world.</i>

1781
01:22:30,179 --> 01:22:32,479
          -I love you.
          -I love you.

1782
01:22:32,515 --> 01:22:35,149
         -I love you.
        I love you too.

1783
01:22:35,184 --> 01:22:37,484
      -Stop. Let them have
     their moment. Come on.

1784
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:39,186
     -We love you too, dad.

1785
01:22:39,221 --> 01:22:41,021
      -I'm just saying hi
      to my granddaughter.

1786
01:22:41,057 --> 01:22:42,823
           -I know...

1787
01:22:42,858 --> 01:22:43,657
           -[laughs]

1788
01:22:43,693 --> 01:22:45,492
    -is that going to be us
         in 20 years?

1789
01:22:45,528 --> 01:22:46,193
         -To infinity.

1790
01:22:46,228 --> 01:22:48,028
              -Hm.

1791
01:22:48,064 --> 01:22:50,164
-I am so happy I found my wife.

1792
01:22:50,199 --> 01:22:53,200
-And I am so thankful you never
      stopped searching.

1793
01:22:54,470 --> 01:22:58,105
    <i> Alicia: As you can see,</i>
   <i> everyone started to grow.</i>

1794
01:22:58,140 --> 01:23:00,541
   <i> Arnold and I rediscovered</i>
           <i> our love</i>

1795
01:23:00,576 --> 01:23:02,509
<i>by getting back to the basics.</i>

1796
01:23:02,545 --> 01:23:04,511
   <i> Keep god and family first</i>

1797
01:23:04,547 --> 01:23:07,548
      <i> and everything else</i>
     <i> will work itself out.</i>

1798
01:23:09,652 --> 01:23:16,457
      ♪<i> oh yeah, oh yeah, </i>
           <i> oh yeah</i> ♪

1799
01:23:16,492 --> 01:23:19,793
   ♪<i> no place I'd rather be</i> ♪


